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Tammybear needs love/help/support/advice/something

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tammybear · 26/07/2004 16:11

Im so upset I cant cry, and I feel like Im dying inside. Dp's been in a funny mood all day and hasnt talked to me. I just presumed he was sulking, but then he told me he doesnt want anything to do with me, and he doesnt think he loves me, and would be quite happy to never see me again.

He tried to leave me last week, but I begged him not to so he stayed. But something in the back of my mind made me wonder if he was waiting til he left and went back home before he decided to break with me. Plus with this other girl he mentioned (said more about it in another thread) makes me wonder if theres something going on now.

I know there are other txts waiting for me that he has sent me, but I dont dare read them because I know they'll just break my heart even more. Now the water works are starting

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sykes · 27/07/2004 00:23

So, can you take someone else. Sounds as if it would be good. Don't cancel it. I'm so sorry, it's horid - but a bit of space?

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tammybear · 27/07/2004 00:25

it would mean having to talk to him about it, and i dont really want to

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sykes · 27/07/2004 00:25

Sory - threads crossed. Am trying to think. Where are you - North/South?

essbee · 27/07/2004 00:25

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tammybear · 27/07/2004 00:28

sykes - south

essbee- dont have a clue. probably give them to his parents

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sykes · 27/07/2004 00:30

Well, Esbee and I are in Surrey - hope that's okay, SB?? If you need a friendly face, seriously.

essbee · 27/07/2004 00:31

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tammybear · 27/07/2004 00:32

thanks but i think im a way out. my friend has suggested that i get all my friends to come round one night to have a laugh

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essbee · 27/07/2004 00:34

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essbee · 27/07/2004 00:35

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sykes · 27/07/2004 00:35

It would be good - friends are everything.

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tammybear · 27/07/2004 00:35

i live in watford, dunno how far that is. i didnt do well in geography lol

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essbee · 27/07/2004 00:38

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tammybear · 27/07/2004 00:39

oh is that it? told you my geography isnt any good!

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sykes · 27/07/2004 00:39

It's closer to where I used to live - Hertford, anyway, I know that when I went through so much crap last year, and SB had far worse times, it was so good just to chat, tell us somehting about yourself.

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tammybear · 27/07/2004 00:42

er.... well ive just turned 20, and its not all that much different than being 19. that really annoys me when people ask how it feels to be 20 now. went on holiday with my mum and dd to great yarmouth a couple of weeks ago. that was fun. dd's first holiday and she really was fasicinated with the sea, except when she put her feet in. it was pretty cold though

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essbee · 27/07/2004 00:42

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tammybear · 27/07/2004 00:43

lol sounds like you guys had fun!

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sykes · 27/07/2004 00:44

I aremember putting my first daughter in the sea - well, her feet, she HATED it.

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tammybear · 27/07/2004 00:46

well dd's feet just went on the wet sand and she was on her tiptoes reaching up for me to grab her, then all of a sudden this big wave came crashing in so i had to do a runner (after grabbing dd that is lol )

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essbee · 27/07/2004 00:46

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sykes · 27/07/2004 00:46

Yes, SB was just a bit cross, because I got the age, weight and height right - the bloke that owned the bar - didn't I?? god that sounds sad.

essbee · 27/07/2004 00:48

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sykes · 27/07/2004 00:50

So, nothing to do with four bottles of wine? I find that my judgement gets better and better

essbee · 27/07/2004 00:50

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