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Battling on!

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lollipop7 · 31/10/2017 20:06

So I'm starting a new thread following on from 0I don't know what to do" as we're almost full.
Blimey! How did that happen!

Seems lots of you are rather ruddy marvellous and want to keep going on this journey with me so I'm opening a new chapter.
Will be back with a proper update later 💐

OP posts:
OnTheRise · 23/12/2017 16:59

If your neighbour could give you the card, so you can pass it on as proof of his delusions, that would be very useful, I think.

He's off the scale.

Slingsanderrors · 23/12/2017 18:50

lollipop I know it’s hard, and it’s in your head all the time, but please try and relax a little over Christmas. Your ex is slowly digging himself into a hole - let him. Gin

k567 · 23/12/2017 19:48

He is desperately running out of ideas. It must be winding him up that you're not biting. Hopefully you will not hear any more from him and you can enjoy baby's first Christmas.

lollipop7 · 25/12/2017 01:59

Well what a lovely peaceful Christmas Eve.
No pissed shithead to deal with.

I made dinner, bathed the children wrapped their presents, put them, and all the others they’ve received under the tree. Had a bath and throughout the course of the evening drank a few glasses of fizz.
Children really happy and excited. Baby is super delicious at the moment with proper little smiles.

I felt very sad about 4pm today. But it passed. And I remembered how awful it was to have to do everything but feel so alone and maligned at Christmas . And then I felt better

Wishing all of you a really Happy Christmas
Thanks for believing in me. 🎄⭐️❤️

OP posts:
AvoidingDM · 25/12/2017 07:50

Wishing you a very merry Christmas. Hope you have an amazing day with your mum and kids.

k567 · 25/12/2017 08:07

Happy Christmas! Have a lovely day

Mumek · 25/12/2017 08:16

Happy Christmas. Have a lovely day .

MrsBertBibby · 25/12/2017 08:24

Happy Christmas Lollipop.

Do try to get that letter from the neighbour. As a professional connoisseur of nutty behaviour, I'd say that's a peach. Show it to police and keep copies for solicitor and AS.

Scoobygang7 · 25/12/2017 08:51

Merry Christmas @lollipop7 have a wonderful day today xx

Ellie56 · 25/12/2017 09:05

Hope you have a happy and peaceful day Lollipop. Merry Christmas.

Groovee · 25/12/2017 09:21

Merry Christmas Lollipop. You have come so far x

NameWithChange · 25/12/2017 10:13

Happy Christmas lolli and all the little pops!

lollipop7 · 25/12/2017 12:28

Thanks everyone 🎅🏻

And a Happy Christmas to you all too.

As predicted he’s rung the house despite a no Contact Order, another blot for the copy book.
I’m surrounded by a sea of presents and stuffing my face with the kids’ chocolates. He’s not getting to me today!

OP posts:
Ellie56 · 25/12/2017 12:47

As predicted he’s rung the house despite a no Contact Order, another blot for the copy book. Angry

Isn't there some way you can block unwanted numbers?

AvoidingDM · 25/12/2017 13:20

Is there a way to record his calls. If he's going to break order you might as well gather evidence rather than blocking him.

GrabbyMcGrabby · 25/12/2017 14:14

Happy Christmas Lollipop!Star

Idontmeanto · 25/12/2017 14:25

Happy Christmas Lollipops and the little poppets

PinaKoala · 25/12/2017 15:51

Merry Christmas Lollipop and the little lollies! Xx

holdbackonthewine · 25/12/2017 17:40

Happy Christmas Lollipop and the mini milks. Thinking of you today xx

Frouby · 25/12/2017 18:48

Thought of you today lolli, glad it's been peaceful. I hope 2018 is easier for you xx

JaneEyre70 · 25/12/2017 21:11

Wishing you and your lovely babies a peaceful Christmas, and thinking of you today. Hope you've all had a lovely day xx

flutterby12 · 25/12/2017 21:22

Wishing you and your lovely family a merry Christmas Lollipop. Hope you've had a good day. Stay strong x

lollipop7 · 26/12/2017 20:47

Thanks everyone, and same to you and yours

It does feel a bit like the calm before the storm but I’m determined to carry on.
The kids are doing really well
Baby C is so bloody beautiful. He makes us all smile and our spirits lift. In all the sadness and worry him and his big brother and sister bring so much joy

Love to you all
🍭 xxx

OP posts:
flutterby12 · 26/12/2017 21:34

Truly scrumptious! He's beautiful Lollipop. X

iknowimcoming · 26/12/2017 21:39

Oh he's gorgeous Lollipop- glad to hear you're having a good Christmas- lord knows you deserve it!

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