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Anyone left their DP/DH knowing it was for the best but still being in love with them?

762 replies

Ifonlyhewould · 27/03/2007 10:15

How did you get through it? Was it really for the best?

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Cashncarry · 17/04/2007 15:30

Melminx - you don't need to trust him completely yet. You just need to resist the urge to kick his arse [sigh of relief emoticon - I feel better for saying that!]

mylittlestar · 17/04/2007 15:31

IOHW yes I'm ok. Don't worry!
I always just pop in here when I need cheering up and it works wonders

cnc long time no see... it must be all of about 3 hours...!! shouldn't you be working?!

Ifonlyhewould · 17/04/2007 15:35

I know but the sun came out and I want to feel 18 again. And when I was 18 my boobies were round my neck not my knees. And it's not like anyones going to know there not really mine is it
Ive even caught DP having a quick peep at them!! LOL. They really are sensational

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Cashncarry · 17/04/2007 15:39

MLS - don't want to work

Stupid boss in stupid Czech republic on stupid holiday [kicking his arse hard emoticon]

Tanee58 · 17/04/2007 17:57

Hi all, had to look in before going home. Lunch with dp was lovely - bacon sarnies in the Philosophers Garden in the park down the road (it's supposed to be a Quiet Corner but they were mowing the grass). Bit colder than I expected, but nice to spend time sounding off about life in the office on my own and battles with government agencies. Dp's in the middle of one over his jobseekers allowance - what are people supposed to live on if they don't have partners in work?

Glad everything's looking up with all of us at the moment and love the boob saga . I remember the days when I could successfully do the 'pencil test' - but now, when I try, the pencil disappears . No good without decent underwiring anymore, but quite nice being a 34DD in other ways .

IOHW, would you like to sell all my neighbourhood cats if I parcel them up for you? Mind, they have sharp points. Have vowed not to look at Ebay for awhile - it brings out the gambler in me & I've wound up buying some really weird stuff. Now tempted by a beehive compost bin. Really should start selling instead of buying. Is it easy?

Tanee58 · 17/04/2007 18:01

My boss is in Marakesh. Hope he gets sunburn! 105 emails in his inbox and 36 phone messages just this afternoon. MP can't understand why I can't do constituency stuff & her diary & my casework all at the same time. Think I should claim triple time.

Finally going home now. Night all xxx

Cashncarry · 17/04/2007 21:48

Tanee - how lovely that you met your DP for lunch. It's such a great way to take the pressure of the rship and see each other in a different light. I'm very but also as I think it's a great sign for the two of you! Yes, bosses on holiday do suck bigtime at the moment. I've only taken eight days proper holiday in a year so am planning to make up for that on his return to the office!

IOHW - how's the ebaying going? Sold any cats yet?

October · 17/04/2007 21:51

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Ifonlyhewould · 18/04/2007 12:49

Good Morning Troopers!!

I'm late signing in today. Just taken DD for her booster jabs, she was amazing, didn't make a sound. So for a treat for being good I took her and my new boobies for a milkshake and a big bun!!

I hope all is well with everyone today. MLS, ive just seen your latest post. I'm hoping that you will still be posting on this thread. We need you as much as you need us!! We are not just here to support, advise ot guide you. We are your friends.

Ok, off to poke my nose in the other threads now xx

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Tanee58 · 18/04/2007 13:58

Hi everyone, ignoring the phones today and dealt with ONLY 46 emails and a few bits of post! Getting some strange things in the post - someone sent us an anonymous pornographic drawing - now filed under 'A' - or should I frame it ready for my boss's return [smile}? Couldn't see its relevance to local government...

Hi October, don't see you on very often now - are you ok? How are things?

IOHW - not just new boobies now, but big buns also - that's too much !

Thanks C&C, yes, it's nice to have a 'lunch date'. I also like it when he meets me after work. He made us a nice cassoulet last night also - not a bad cook when he gets round to it.We watched an ancient video of him in drama school - wow, he had a lot of hair then! I'd forgotten how thick and dark it was!

Ifonlyhewould · 18/04/2007 14:24

Hi Tanee

Any chance we can get peep at this pornographic drawing?

Things seem to be picking up for you, you sound much happier. I'm pleased for you

Have a lovely afternoon xx

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ginnedupmummy · 18/04/2007 14:51

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Ifonlyhewould · 18/04/2007 14:57

Hi Ginnedupmummy

Don't analyse it, don't find holes in it just enjoy it

It's happening and it's happening now. He is making an effort and thats great. If it doesn't last and he slips back at least you will have a nice memory

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Tanee58 · 18/04/2007 15:01

Ginnedup - yes, enjoy it - it's good that he's making an effort (especially one you can eat! - deal with the drink if/when it recurs - who knows?

IOHW - if I scanned this drawing onto MN, I'd be banned!!!!! Suffice to say, very anatomically correct

Ifonlyhewould · 18/04/2007 15:03

I was thinking about posting a photo of my 'new boobies' They are rather superb!!

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melminx · 18/04/2007 15:07

ginned up - glad your ok

tanee- very pleased your happy

iohw - what are you like?>>>>> me heading off to la senza site!!!

Ifonlyhewould · 18/04/2007 15:10

Gosh mel, yes! get yourself on there. Only a tenner in the sale

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Cashncarry · 18/04/2007 15:14

is that you IOHW??

Ifonlyhewould · 18/04/2007 15:21

That's me!!!!!

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melminx · 18/04/2007 15:23

cnc rofl!!!!!

iohw sold out in my size on all i liked!!! might have to have a hollywwod boob job!

Ifonlyhewould · 18/04/2007 15:25

Awh mel! Shove a couple of DH's socks in there, much less uncomfortable than a hollywood job, providing the socks are clean that is!!!

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Cashncarry · 18/04/2007 15:27

What the feck's a hollywood job? Have I led a really sheltered life or something?

melminx · 18/04/2007 15:27

already had one few years back but since dd was born and lost weight not looking as hot as they did!

melminx · 18/04/2007 15:28

cnc get big bangers!!!

Cashncarry · 18/04/2007 15:39

No thanks melminx - mine are quite big enough thank you! I ran down the stairs just now and nearly knocked myself out....