He's hit me

[kafia]

Again and I thought it was going to stop.
I don't know what to do I am numb. He's so, so angry and is just throwing stuff around. I have come out of the room but I just don't know what to do I am frozen.

Dial 999. It will not stop. You are in danger. This is the only way to keep yourself safe.

Call the police. Nobody ever had a better relationship by hiding domestic violence. It has to end. He ended it when he hit you.

Can you lock yourself in a bathroom and ring the police?

Have you got children in the house?

Can you get out of the house and call the police??

Or do you have DC??

No children anymore there's no way i can call them he will be so angry I've done it all before and I'm here again and I don't know what to do I thought he was different now

Pack

If you can't call the police, can you get away to somewhere safe?

A friend of relative?

What do you mean no children anymore? Anyway can you get out of the house?

Please call the police.

Oh love, he's never going to be different.

Call police

Call the police and let them take him away. This will give you time to sort an escape.

The priority is you need to be safe tonight. Don't think long term now. Just get somewhere safe.

Call the police, or a friend.

Get out x

Oh goodness, you need to get somewhere safe love, he may attack you again.

Get out, get safe and call the police

They dont change my love, other than to get worse. Gather up every ounce of courage you have and call the police. I've been there and know how difficult it is, but it is the only way to have any sort of future. There's a lovely new life out there waiting for you.

He was never different. The first time he ever hit you he gave himself permission to do so. He managed to keep it under control temporarily but its who he is. It will never change.

If I call them he will be so angry and I don't want to have to start all over again with him which I will because I can't leave him I can never stay far away from him and I wind him up so much I don't mean to. I feel so frozen and numb.

Please call the police. Please. Keep pushing forward with getting him out of your life for good.
Do you need medical attention?

This isn't your fault. No decenf person hits another, no matter what they've done.

Why do you think you can't leave him? You can and must.

But you have to leave him, he won't change. You are in danger. Call the police or a friend and leave. It will be hard but you need to have no contact with him. You have the right to live your life without fear 💐

You need to be safe now.
How can you make sure that is the case?