He's hit me

[kafia]

Again and I thought it was going to stop.
I don't know what to do I am numb. He's so, so angry and is just throwing stuff around. I have come out of the room but I just don't know what to do I am frozen.

Morning OK. Can you give us an update so that we know you are safe?

He kicked me out of my flat x

Do you have somewhere safe to go?

Is there anyone at all you can call?

If it's your flat can the police help to remove him (preferably whilst arresting him)?

I don't know what I should do

Can you go to a police station?

Women's Aid - tel 0808 2000 247 assuming you are in England.

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When it is safe for you to do so, contact Women's Aid. Or the police who will keep you safe and refer you onwards for an emergency place to stay.

Please, please go to the police

Go to a police station.

Where are you now are you somewhere safe or have you been outside all this time?

Please please leave him and do not go back.

My mum put up with 7 years of abuse, mental and physical whilst I was 5-12.

It ended with him beating her so badly she was hospitalised and we were moved away.

She kept forgiving him every time, it was hard to leave the relationship, especially with children involved. She was petrified to leave. Petrified to stay.

Go to a friends or family members tonight and call the police.

Whatever you do, stay safe and please do not go back.

Call the police and get him out

I am back he left I don't know what next I feel sick

Is it just your flat Kafia? Or is it owned together, could you get the locks changed in the morning? Is there a friend or relative who can come and stay with you tonight so you feel safer.

What professional help have you had in the past?
What can we do to help you decide on your next steps?

OP I beg you, if he rerurns call the police.

Leave your key in the lock turned as far as it will go. Do not allow him back in.

What next? Leave key in door, call police, never ever have him back. He could kill you one day, please let us help?

I need to go because I need to be away from him I can't be here any more I have had all sorts of help but I'm too rubbish to stay away. I don't know what else to do I want it to be better now I just want to feel not scared again. I am tired of this life I've been here for so so long. I don't want to leave because he was nice to my daughter and she died and he is my only link to her and I shouldn't ever have been here I just can't

kafia he's not your only link to your daughter please don't stay with an abuser for that, you have your memories with your dd.
He won't stop abusing you, have you had any advice of women's aid or similar before op? They have alsorts of programs and advice that can help.

Oh sweetheart, I'm so very sorry you've lost a daughter, you must be heart broken, you can be happy again you know, but not with him, no way.

You're not rubbish, you can do this

He's not your only link to her Kafia, and she wouldn't want you to think that way. She'd want you to be happy

Kafia, call Women's Aid on 0808 2000 247 now. It's a Freephone number. If you don't know what to do, they will advise and help you.

Think - would your daughter want you to be in this relationship like this ? You need to get away whilst you are alive

I don't know what to do anymore I can't get through to that number

YOU are your link to your daughter, you carried her, you birthed her - I am so sorry for your devastating loss.
In her memory seek a better life for yourself.

Call the police if you cannot get through to WA tonight.