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i had sex with my husbands twin :(

577 replies

mangamummy · 14/02/2007 13:31

sounds like something from take a break doesnt it

it was last christmas and we all went to a villa in france, DH and his brother and father stayed up playing some japenese drinking game, and i went to bed early - but had had my fair share of a bottle of potent red wine.

a few hours later (who i thought was) DH came in woke me up, was toatlly pissed and we started kissing ect, i sensed something was completly wrong, and when i got my senses back realised it was BIL, but went ahead anyways

after he went back down stairs - and i drifted back off to sleep

anyways the next day all three of them were asleep downstairs and the day continues as normal

when i woke up the next day i was in shock, i went to the toilet and was sick, i told DH i was ill and we went home early,

ive seen BIL 4 times since and havent said anything to him about it

should i bring it up?? or tell DH??

OP posts:
mangamummy · 14/02/2007 13:32

what i meant was BIL continued as normal whereas i was sick to my stomach,

OP posts:
DetentionGrrrl · 14/02/2007 13:33

what would telling him achieve, other than making your self feel better (briefly)?

LoveMyGirls · 14/02/2007 13:33

Why did you go ahead anyway?

Tutter · 14/02/2007 13:34

i wondered that LMG

DetentionGrrrl · 14/02/2007 13:34

so when did you realise, during or after?

I'm sure your husband would love to know you can't tell him from his brother.

kittylette · 14/02/2007 13:37

i dont know

i was drunk, but i knew what i was doing, it was exciting

BIL has since split with his wife for cheating, so i dont think its a huge weight on his conscience

i knew what i was doing because i was alert enough to get a condom (thankgod)

i just feel like i cant live my life lying

kittylette · 14/02/2007 13:37

i dont know

i was drunk, but i knew what i was doing, it was exciting

BIL has since split with his wife for cheating, so i dont think its a huge weight on his conscience

i knew what i was doing because i was alert enough to get a condom (thankgod)

i just feel like i cant live my life lying

FoghornLeghorn · 14/02/2007 13:37

Why would you carry on when you realised it wasn't your DH ?

FoghornLeghorn · 14/02/2007 13:37

Aha Well that just explains so much !

Well DOne Kittylette

hunkermunker · 14/02/2007 13:38

Kitty, are you the OP?

snowleopard · 14/02/2007 13:38

Do you think he (BIL) thinks you know, or does he think you were drunk and think it was DH and had no idea it was him? i.e. did he use the twin thing to get a shag thinking you wouldn't notice, or did he want you to sleep with him as him, as it were?

RubyRioja · 14/02/2007 13:38

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oliveoil · 14/02/2007 13:38

name change alert

FoghornLeghorn · 14/02/2007 13:38

I never usually do the troll thing but i knew there was something weird with you

DetentionGrrrl · 14/02/2007 13:38

tut tut Kitty

twinsetandpearls · 14/02/2007 13:38

Do you know that you have changed your identity?

LoveMyGirls · 14/02/2007 13:38

Have you spoken to BIL about it? asked him why he came inot your room when his brother was downstairs? didn't they wonder where he was?

PeckaRolloverAgain · 14/02/2007 13:38

kitty, have you outed yourself there?

Tutter · 14/02/2007 13:38

kittylette, is that you?

Limbodancer · 14/02/2007 13:38

Are you 100% sure it was your bil and not your dh, if you had a lot to drink and all that...... {just a thought}

DetentionGrrrl · 14/02/2007 13:39

LOL

hunkermunker · 14/02/2007 13:39

Aren't you worried he'll get the raging horn if you show up at your wedding in a basque then, Kitty?

PeckaRolloverAgain · 14/02/2007 13:39

do you even have a DH? thought you werent married yet

Tutter · 14/02/2007 13:39

is someone just an eensy bit bored this wednesday lunchtime?

FoghornLeghorn · 14/02/2007 13:39

I am pmsl here ! What a twunt you are