That Sunday Feeling!

[Hushabyemountain98]

Welcome to to my new thread. I hope that all my MN friends from Onwards and Upwards will join me and maybe a few new ones!xx

Yes my STBXH was so miserable. He'd probably blame me but we are each responsible for our own happiness. I didn't make him drink alcohol every night of the week; I drink tea every night and only touch booze on a rare night out with my friends.

Good morning all.
Yesterday was quite hectic and I didn't really get the chance to read my thread.
So glad to hear that you are feeling stronger Bibbidee. Baby steps are the way to go.
Kirk I am glad you are having your daughters dog to stay. Animals are such good company and good for the soul. I still miss my old boy but have the company of the mad young one!
I am glad that you have had a little holiday by the sea Louisa. Sounds as though it has blown the cobwebs away!
Hobbit I hope all is well with you and yours?
I have to go as meeting a friend for coffee shortly.
Not forgetting Pisco, WTAFF, ThankGod, madame and Tartan. I hope I have not forgotten anyone. I hope you are all okay?
Xx

Hello everyone.

Hush - it might just be me but you are definitely coming across as a lot stronger now than you were. I hope you are doing ok.

Kirk - sorry you're having a touch time. The thing that hurts the most I think is that this is the man who you thought was your closest ally. And to see them just throw it all away and seemingly forget about you kills you inside. I hope you are finding some comfort from the pooch!

Did anyone find out what became of one of our other fellow posters - I think she was called Chiconbeige?

Have a nice evening everyone.

Good morning WTAFF.
I am doing okay thanks. I am trying to be stronger. I have had a busy week so have not had too much thinking time.
I hope you are okay?
When do you go to your Counsellor next?
I think Tattieboggle/notonyur contacted Chiconbelge a while back and MN was not for her at the moment. I may PM her again.
I better get moving as have to go food shopping.

Have a good day.
xx

Hi Hush.

I think it's better to keep busy. I really do find that it helps.

I'm not seeing my counsellor again until the 19th as she is on holiday but she has given me some homework to do(!) to tide me over until my next session.

I've just booked another holiday. I'm taking myself off for Christmas to the Canary Islands. I need to stop this holiday obsession!

Have a good day. Xx

Hi WTAFF,
Keeping busy does really help.
Saying that I am still not dressed and I am watching Saturday Kitchen.
Good luck with the homework from your Counsellor.
The 19th will soon come around. I do not see mine until the 17th.

Good for you booking another holiday. Christmas in the Canaries will be different and hopefully warmer!

I think I really need a holiday or at least a break.

Have a good day xx

WTAFF you and I have this holiday obsession , do you think we are running away or do you think we are Judith Chalmers in disguise , I am off to France on Thursday , this is the last one of 7 this year 🙈 hush chin up come with me we will go on a cruise from Southampton 😘

Haha Kirk. I'm going to say we are Judith Chalmers in disguise! Although in all seriousness, I do think that there is an element of running away. I always feel much better when I'm on holiday, as there is nothing around to remind you of the past and everything is new.

Enjoy France!

Yes, Hush, let's have a MNetter cruise!

Good afternoon Kirk and WTAFF.
Finding it quite amusing thinking of a pair of Judith Chalmers!
I think we all have to do what makes us feel better, whatever that is!
Have a great time Kirk.
A MNetter cruise. The mind boggles! Imagine that?
I hope you are both having a good day?
Also wishing the same for my other MN friends.
xx

Hi Hush.

How are you doing? Xx

Hi WTAFF. I am okay thank you apart from I have a lot of shoulder pain?
Went out for coffee with a friend this morning. Have been doing some cake icing and just general housework.
How are you? Are you doing anything nice this weekend?
I am going out for a family members Birthday dinner on Saturday evening. I will say 'Good night'.xx

Anyone around? Feeling a bit lonely this evening. I can't really fill my time.

I hope you enjoyed your family birthday dinner yesterday Hush.

Xx

Hi WTAFF. Have you got the Sunday night blues or has anything happened to make you feel particularly low today?

Hi Madame. Thank you so much for your message.

I'm just feeling really emotional. I'm sitting on my own with my dog. I'm worried about the health of a close family member.

I'm just going to go to bed. Tomorrow is a new day!

Thanks again for your message.

Hello WTAFF. I hope you're ok.
I'm away and the Internet is patchy.
I meant to add to the holidays and running away conversation. I think that planning and going away actually helps us to move forwards, because we are forward planing. Not long until you go to Canada. Chin up lovely x

Ah Pisco. Thanks. I'm just feeling a bit sorry for myself. It happens I think!

Have a lovely holiday. Xx

Good evening WTAFF and madame.
Sorry I have not been around but I have had a busy couple of days.
Yesterday I was busy finishing my sisters cake. Then we had a birthday dinner. I then went to a neighbours house for a chat and a few glasses of Prosecco.
Today I had various jobs to do. Then my eldest son and his girlfriend were going to stay in a hotel in the New Forest. They asked me to join them for lunch. So I drove them there and we had a rather nice lunch in a very nice restaurant.
I am sorry that you are feeling really emotional WTAFF. Sorry to hear that you are worried about the health of a close family member. Thinking of you. I hope that with the start of a new week things will seem better for you. I hope you manage to have a good nights sleep.
I hope you are okay madame? Thanks for being there for WTAFF.

I hope that we all have a decent week. I have a funeral to go to this week. I have my Counsellor tomorrow. I think you have yours this week too WTAFF? I hope it helps with your emotions.

Well I better close as I am feeling quite tired.
Good night all xxx

Hi Pisco and WTAFF.

Pisco I hope you have a nice time away for a few days.
I think you are right about forward planning for holidays and days/evenings out really helps us move forward.
I hope your holiday in Canada WTAFF soon comes around.
Chin up WTAFF.
Good night xx

It does happen WTAFF. Sometimes you just can't help it. Hopefully tomorrow will be better for you x
Hello Hush and Madame x

I am in France , but I wanted to respond to what , I have prayed for all here to feel better and feel calm and healed ❤️

*you all

Hi Pisco and Kirk,

You are right Pisco.
I hope everyone has a good day today especially WTAFF.

Thank you Kirk for your prayers. Very kind.
I hope you are having a good trip?

I better try and get back to sleep.

Xxx

Good morning Hush, Kirk, Pisco and Madame (and everyone else).

Thanks so much for being around last night. It meant a lot. I'm still feeling a bit teary this morning but not as desolate as last night. Thanks for your prayers Kirk.

I'm going to walk the dog and get myself to work.

Enjoy your day everyone whatever you may be doing. Xx

Good morning WTAFF.
I hope that walking the dog clears your head a little. I am building up the enthusiasm to take my dog for a walk. I think it has stopped raining!
I hope that you manage to get through your day without being too emotional. Thinking of you.
Take care xx

Just a quick message before I try to get some sleep.
I hope that all my MN friends have had a reasonable day?
I hope your day was better WTAFF?
I hope that Pisco and Kirk are enjoying their time away?
Good night ladies 😴Xxx