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The Brave Babes Battle Bus - Shaping Up For A Super, Sober Summer!

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Mouseface · 12/05/2015 13:40

Hey, I'm Mouse Smile

This is 'Gerald', our trustworthy, non judgemental Bus, full of a variety of posters who have travelled long and far, or even just joined us a few stops ago.

This is a place where you can be who YOU want to be. 24/7, 365. This lovely place is just like your best friend, there's no slagging off, no judging, just us. Smile

Drinking or not, embarrassed, fed up of the way things are, or just lonely of living the way drinking makes you do, come and take a peek and see what you think.....

THIS THE LAST THREAD WE HAD

AND THIS IS WHERE THE BUS WAS BUILT, WHERE IT ALL BEGAN

We can't wait to meet you, we won't bite! Well, unless you ask very nicely. Wink

Take good care until we see you. :) xx

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HandsThatDoDishes · 09/06/2015 21:51

Back again Blush I forgot to say a big thank you to you ALL for your kind words and encouragement. Venus I loved your post this evening Smile. Right I really am going to bed now ! xx

Rubyredlips · 09/06/2015 22:45

Just popping in to say hi to all babes. Not been around much. Will try and post more tomorrow

spanna41 · 09/06/2015 22:45

Hands Day 10 tomorrow - Look at you Babe Flowers

Angry I got completely sucked in to the sordid affair thread Blush Makes me so cross that people would do that Angry I actually worried about that woman this morning Shock what I waste of everyone's time. Khalisi I also read the spin off thread, bloody hilarious and made me feel better that I wasn't the only one that thought it was genuine. Honestly I need to stop veering over to read other threads, bloody scary what people do to fill their time Confused

Rural 6 WEEKS that is bloody brilliant lovely one Flowers huge achievement Grin I hope you stick around and keep us company Smile

Baby good to see you babe so so well done you lovely woman x

Fox I'm trying not to think beyond 100 Days (72 tomorrow) Shock I did think about drinking more than a few times today Hmm will it ever cease? I fear not?

Classy good job, well done Babe Flowers

Completely zonked. Night night all lovely Brave Babes where ever you are x

spanna41 · 09/06/2015 22:48

Ruby x-posted with you! Good to see you babe, hope all ok. Sleep tight x

Venus inspiring post, thank you Flowers

Khalisi · 10/06/2015 07:34

Good morning, Babes,

Mouse Did you get any help, my love? I'm really worried that you were crying.
Flowers

Day 4 here. Hopefully that will help with the running today!

Later, crazy, brave Babes!

Isindemoodforspring · 10/06/2015 16:30

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dementedma · 10/06/2015 20:12

Hey all.
Got a potentially fucking massive problem. Sorry, can't go into more details. Might be mia for a while.....feck!!!!!!!

Fairenuff · 10/06/2015 20:15

Uh oh. Post when you can ma (even if it means a nc).

venusandmars · 10/06/2015 20:36

ma oh dear - I'm only on the other side of the water if you need real life support Flowers

StillStayingClassySanDiego · 10/06/2015 20:55

Only just jumped on the bus, the support has been brilliant.

Hope everyone's ok, ma and Mouse in particular BrewFlowers

spanna41 · 11/06/2015 07:29

Good Morning Babes

Bumping our thread back to page one (don't like it when it's hard for Babes to find us!!!!)

Mouse darling I'm sorry I missed your post. I have no experience, is it worth taking the forms down to CAB and asking if they have an expert with this? Sorry I'm probably stating the bleeding obvious Blush I really hope you got some help Flowers

Ma I'm keeping everything crossed that all is OK Smile

Classy well done babe, you are doing so well x

Fox the mystery of the missing macaroons was solved yesterday. the girl in question finally confessed to nicking them from one of my DD2s best friends. She's a right madam this girl and I'm glad that all instincts led to this conclusion and that the little shit was caught out! I can't stand liars and thieves, they get right on my norks.

Feeling a bit low this morning, can't put my finger on it, could be that fact that it's a lovely sunny day and I'm going to work! I wish I could be a lady what lunches, why oh why do I feel constantly on a hamster wheel?

Anyhoooo Have a good day all and I'll check on later this evening

Isindemoodforspring · 11/06/2015 09:27

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Khalisi · 11/06/2015 09:53

Good morning, Babes,

Head up, spanna! I'm also at work, my darling. I pulled the curtains back and the sun was shining. Felt just like you do at that moment, trust me.

Isinde Don't what to burst your bubble, babes. Its winter in SA! Grin
Have a good one, darling babe!

Ma Whenever you can or want to, pop back on. Flowers

Mouse Still worried about you, love. Could you work it out? (I hope I have not overlooked an update. Sorry if that's the case. I'll read back up later).

Sweet I am hoping you're ok. If you made it back to work and are swamped, please know that we're thinking of you and hoping everything is ok, babes. I'm falling in-love with my garden and it is due in large to your optimistic gardening!

Ruby How are you, babes? I hope dd is better?

Well done, Classy! Day 5 here and I'm really chuffed with myself! Now only if I can make it through the weekend!

Be good, ladies riding a virtual bus!

venusandmars · 11/06/2015 11:02

Good morning babes. It's warm, it's sunny just the time for something really cool and refreshing - fresh lime squeezed into a glass and topped up with ice cold soda. Brilliant!

mouse and ma sending hugs. Hope that things seem less awful this morning.

aliasjoey · 11/06/2015 11:24

Morning babes hope you're okay ma if you're reading

Had a drink last night, felt very odd like I couldn't breathe - this happens sometimes, it's like an allergy to alcohol Shock I managed to stop drinking with 1 glass still left.

But now (it's like a game of Fortunately, Unfortunately) I want to buy more because 1 glass isn't enough... Hmm

obrigada · 11/06/2015 11:45

Ma hope things are ok x

Sun shining here too Venus, water is my drink of the day today Grin.

Khalisi · 11/06/2015 12:21

Hey obrigada! How are you, darling?! Long time!

Here too, venus! Just come from a short walk. It is HOT. So happy I don't have to run today! Tomorrow will be a real scorcher too!

Don't get more, alias. You know what that means! I'm hoping to get through the weekend BUT I have half a bottle of bubbly left. Unfortunately the bottle closes really well and keeps for days! Confused

Hey Faire!

SweetLathyrus · 11/06/2015 16:20

I'm a rubbish Babe.

But I'm a rubbish Babe who is back from hiding in a pit of depressive solitude, . . . At least I've made it as far as the side car anyway, and I'll be staying there at least until tomorrow (my birthday).

I'm sorry I've been MIA, and I'm just going to read back and see what you've all been up to, see who the new babes are and will be back later.

SmallFox · 11/06/2015 16:24

Sweet darling I am so glad I get to be the first (of many) to welcome you back! We have missed your lovely gentle wisdom and kindness soooooo much. Am beyond delighted to see you. And happy birthday for tomorrow.

My heart goes out to you and I am so so sorry to hear how you've been. Much love to you and a hug to welcome you back to the bus xx

HandsThatDoDishes · 11/06/2015 16:26

Welcome back Sweet Smile and happy birthday for tomorrow. Are you ok?

Day 11 for me today. Have a lovely sunny evening ladies xx

SweetLathyrus · 11/06/2015 16:39

Small I love you are you still AF? Thank you Hands, I'm ok, in fact, I'm feeling as good as I have in a long time, - three cheers for pharmaceuticals! Day 11 is ace.

Just reading back, Faire, on your recommendation I bought Elizabeth is Missing. What a wonderful, funny, poignant read, thank you. I've just started Ladies of Grace Adieu, but think it might annoy me, so I'll be going back to Total Recall (training for gun dogs).

SweetLathyrus · 11/06/2015 16:59

Breaking out the Becks Blue. I know lots of Babes talk about it, but I always avoided 'pretend beer', just like I avoid 'pretend meat' as a vegetarian, but it's been a revelation, and has saved me a good few units over the last couple of weeks.

HandsThatDoDishes · 11/06/2015 17:17

Sweet I got Where'd you go Bernadette from the library yesterday. I seem to remember you read it a while ago? I'm really enjoying it so far. Pepsi Max time for me I think.

SmallFox · 11/06/2015 17:25

Becks blue has worked for me, Sweet - I understand why people are nervous of 'substitutes', but since I wasn't a massive lager drinker anyway it hasn't been a trigger. I have a couple of bottles, religiously, at witching hour and it's worked well - I'm not sure I would have stayed AF without it. Mind you I did once get pulled over by the police for drinking it in the car! Both they and I were mildly embarrassed.

I loved Elizabeth is Missing, too. I've noticed how much more I have read this year and it's been a revelation actually being able to remember the content!

Hands, you are doing brilliantly. Well done.

SweetLathyrus · 11/06/2015 17:41

Hands I did recommend Where'd you go Bernadette, thought it was great fun, especially as someone with bonkers social anxiety who never really got on with the school gate mummy thing!

Me too, Small, I've not only read more, (fiction that is, I don't count undergrad essays, journal articles or scholarly monographs) but I've been more advebturous in what I read. Grin at being pulled over for drinking Becks Blue! It annoys me every time the self-checkout tells me I need authorisation to buy it!