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[jesy]

Can I start us ???'

You ok jesy? rambling a bit Not sure what you are trying to say

blossom is ok
im fine .

jesy Think it would of been odd if he said he did like it to look like little girls. Just not the kind of thing you negotiate when you only just met someone unless he's only thinking of his sexual desires and how he wants you to present yourself to him.
Blossom That kind of comment would put me off, after many dates and a mutual sexual attraction then I would be ok with it.
But if you ladies are happy to start off dating with sex at the forefront then these two men are upfront and ready to go.

gotta

yeah id be very worried if he had said that!
im hoping it was just him being honest , he hasn't mentioned it since and since the chit chat has been normal lol.

to be honest id rather some one was up front and not waste my time .

its just a drink anyway!

gotta Exactly, this also happened last week when a bloke starting sexting before we had met, it just seems plain odd. All I can think if they are interested in one thing only. Makes me feel uck. Why don't these guy go straight the sites for sex only, why pretend they are interested in relationships and dating, it's pathetic, sorry rant over.

jesy I cut contact with someone last week because he made comments about pubic hair before we had even met

Sex talk before you meet should be a no no.

Different if you meet and are really attracted to each other, then it's whatever you are comfortable with.

ill cancel it , I cant afford another 6 quid on drinks this week any way.

yet another weekend on my own

Thank you arrow so not just me being and old prude.
jesy got to be some nice guys out there.

Jesy, if you want to meet him, carn't you just meet up for a coffee and leave it there on a first meeting. He might surprise you and pay for the coffees.

jesy yup looking after you ... that would include styling your lady garden how ever YOU please.

love to term lady garden imno

arrow

that's all it was going to be was a drink he already said hed pay , he joked saying do you think I live with family from choice so I think he understands situation, but from what ive gathered he works very long hours trying get money together again to move back out.

it was just drinks , nothing was going to happen I might even hate him!

Blossom, the way I see it is that the chances of me wanting sexual interaction with a guy is pretty slim so chatting about it before I've met them would make me feel yuck. I stop the chat there and then if anyone even hints at it.

I'm not a prude either, far from it when I fancy someone and they do me ;)

blossom

that what my former best mate refer to it .

and ill keep mine how I like no man dictates to me , did once I let some one dominate me and it was only via an exes current gf ( funnily enough mr it) post on fb did I realise it , I was lucky it was only emotional hers wasn't and I wont let that happen again.

he has not long texted saying the posh little coffee shop in town my treat !

Could not resist sending him a message saying I think plain weird to talk about before meeting someone. Bet I don't get a reply, makes me wonder if there are woman out there who would encourage this sort of nonsense?

I messaged him saying you sure you want to meet .
explained im broke , he texted saying how about a cupa in town bacon roll and a chat ! and hes buying .

no more lady garden chat lol
plus this will sound daft but he don't seem to be overly trying , when men over try that puts me on edge.

he just let something slip as well , so I can do a little internet investigations lmao !!!

Do tell, jesy !?

I have just had the following message:
'I don't message many girls on here. I hope you take it as a compliment that I am messaging you'

I have messaged back, expressing my gratitude & excitement. Waiting for a reply ...

I seem to be in the desert right now (with no-one about!) - no contact from the men in my life and broke right now so not much chance of meeting anyone either.

super I am in the same boat, just the odd messages from idiots. And dinner with my X, my life is a bit pants right now

imno do I detect a note of sarcasm lol

ha Blossom we should get together and compare notes...

I'm counting on Xmas invites and my newly single French friend (who likes gigs, men etc) coming out and flirting to get me, my other shy friend and the French girl out there again...!

he part of a supporter group who a mate is part of ideal chance to to do a bit of snooping lol

just found out my ex getting married and stupidly im hurt x
ive deleted his number , before I could send the I hope she happy with a lying cheating shit like you .
yes I know he cheats as I was the girl he has cheated on with at least two gf ( I must admit I didn't know this at time ).

I don't know why it hurts but it does