why was the text to sister about op's dh zapped?

[LEMmingaround]

Surely it was genuine???

WTAF? I thought she was a bit casual about going out with her mates for the evening with all this going on. Pfft.

My thoughts too.
If it had really happened, there's no way you could causually go out with your mates. Her manner was too cool.
In reality you would be tearing your hair out if something like this was REALLY happening.

there are still places where women can get a pension at 60

Correct, I searched this and found a list of countries and state pension ages. It turns out there are several places.

I don't understand why the thread has been suspended, every detail of what she went through seemed very genuine to me. I spent quite a bit of time considering the matter and offering my tiny contributions, I am therefore just a bit puzzled as to how it was that I was misled.

I just wish they'd leave the title, with an explanation that it's been deleted, for 24-48 hours. The number of times I come back and hunt pointlessly lately....arghhhh

Posters were pressing for more and more perdonal detailsuch as "exactly where do you live" MNHQ could have pulled to protect OP from revealing too much.

Perdonal = personal!

I am keeping away from "Relationships" now because most of them seem like fabricated stories. I used to believe them, more fool me.

Yep, 2nd one pulled this morning from the Relationships topic

Formulaic, button pushing, bunfight inducing subject. Doormatted woman.

Have we an invasion on our hands ?

It might be the same bored person writing them all

OOOh, Hallowe'en smilies

Which ones were pulled this morning? I'm getting in a tangle now!

Yes Anyfucker it's time to namechange too you know!

Gah, it was july last time I looked !

My favourite one.......

Perhaps we should have a hypothetical/fantasy/made up/bullshit relationship forum;

People get to post their stuff (aka try out their creative writing!) and if you post in it you know what you're getting into! Just a thought.

Does this happen a lot around here? I am fairly new, and have already been hooked into a couple of these fake threads. I wonder how the mods know which ones are made up? What are some of the warning signs?

it's happening a lot at the moment, vrv

they tend to follow a formula though

when you have been around here for a while, you will get to recognise it

nrv

So far I guess it's a certain degree of salaciousness that's the main unifying factor.

and a certain degree of apparent "helplessness" in the face of extreme provocation

but I lurrrrve him and other such crap

Drip feeding of crucial/salacious information seems to be the main tell for me.

Also maybe also an absence of the kind of messiness that tends to characterise most everyday relationship situations?