why was the text to sister about op's dh zapped?

[LEMmingaround]

Surely it was genuine???

So there is a long standing mumsnetter who is shagging someone else's husband and the wife could be on here too . Fabulous. Someone we call a friend could be screwing one of us over.

It's terrible for people who are genuinely in need - the posters who give so much supprt on relationships will cease to bother if this oes on

Wow weirdest reverse ever did not see that at all...like the mumsnet version of The Sixth Sense but without the ghosts

A reverse? Yuck. So, fishing for the wife on mumsnet? Am I understanding this correctly. How very desperate

Sometimes when I am posting, to try and support someone MN I am thinking why am I doing this, should I just get a life? Its beyond me to spend time to create such as post ....to gauge opinions! I am tiring of MN so much, in so many ways.

Where are you getting this info from? Am I missing something?

Before the thread was zapped, there was a message from Mumsnet. It said, long standing member, reverse thread, got carried away...

That's all I can remember.

Hook line and sinker yet again.At least I didn't post on this thread.What is it with these people and fuck all to do on a Sunday.Either go to church or watch back to back Antique Roadshow.Idiots.

Oh ffs. I was coming back to see how OP was doing (I thought her DH was innocent )

How was a reversey on this even possible

OP come back and tell us you've done the decent thing and ended the affair.

And then fuck off

nslw, MNHQ said as much on the thread before they blasted it.

I really wish MNHQ would do something about this name-changing lark. When something like this happens, the poster's usual name should be disclosed. What a liar. I'd dodge each and every post in future if I knew her username.

Thanks Pacific- I missed that!

Eh?! I read that thread & thought 'Hmm, she sounds about as devastated as a dead fish to say her husband may have been shagging someone for 3 years' but a reverse? Nah, I'm not buying it for a second.

I read that thread. So, when she went into all that bizarre, novelettish detail about the suspected 'wife' being too glamorous, groomed and expensive-looking to be the nanny/dog walker, she was describing her own lengthy eyelashes etc etc???? What a bizarre exercise in fictional narcissism.

Brass that's another thread, the one with the glamorous wife with the lost dog.

This thread was the sister/text/ow thread.

No Brassrubbing, that's a different thread!

Zombie agrees with Scarlett. The person should be banned.

Brass I think you are confusing the two. I wasn't on the "so I just met my boyfriends wife" thread, has that gone too?

So, was the 'boyfriend's wife' one not real, either?

I did not get sucked in to that one if it wasn't.

Whoops. Sorry to the blameless OP of the 'boyfriend's wife/fake sister' thread.

A 'long standing' member of MN would NOT need to post on MN t' 'gauge response' seeing as the members on here have long made it clear what their opinion of the OW is.

I don't believe that for one minute.

I asked MNHQ about 'boyfriend's wife' thread; it's a regular MNer and reply was that it's nothing untoward with the thread.

So.... she was wondering if it would be obvious that a tip off originated from ow?

Definitely designed to cause trouble - especially with the excuse given by the OP when exposed as a reverse. Anyone with a DH who changed jobs 3 years ago, has a sister in a different town etc ...