Oh dear, checked dh's phone :(

[nofarmhere]

I know it is a big no no, but I did.
Found a text from his male work mate saying "did you get a touch then"
reply "no family life gets in the way" a few other lines I cannot remember then "it will be mine, all mine!"
I have not said anything as I am in the wrong for looking at the messages, but feel rather sick...

What do you think it means?

If I saw that on dhs phone would assume he was buying a new bike. What sort of man is he normally?

I don't know what it means. Does it mean something terrible to you?

what are you thinking this cryptic convo refers to ?

Ipod touch?

I would assume that should say "in touch". Client to call? Account he's trying to get?

Do you have reason to fear more? Othe behavior? Why did you feel you had to check his phone?

What do you think it is about? Because from the outside it all looks rather ambiguous.

The use of 'it' implies a man toy, like a car, or a games console or some gadget that he wasn't able to go and see/test/buy at the weekend because he was busy doing stuff with the family.

Could it be something like that?

I thought ipod

Am I missing something? My DH had almost that exact conversation with his friend the other day, they were talking about a bike that someone was selling.

It is "a touch" bit. That is odd right?
Normally everything is fine.

The way the word "it" is used makes me suspect it's a thing not a person - unless your other half is such a twat an OW is a "thing" of course...

I would see 'a touch' as like getting a good deal or bit of luck tbh

Sounds like a snazzy new sports car to me.

i would assume he was buying something 'boy toy' like a bike?

It doesn't strike me as talking about another person. More like a new gadget or a car etc

A touch just looks like a typo to me. Or an iPod touch as others have pointed out.

There's nothing in what you've posted that sounds dodgy to me at all. If it said "a shag" then you might have problems, but it looks like you're overthinking this.

Do you think the touch is a shag? Could it mean a shag off you?

Yes - it sounds like a much wanted man toy. Is there something he's mentioned to you perhaps that he might have been yearning for?

Oh dear.
It may not be as bad as it may appear.
However, we have to ask why you checked his phone?
What were you expecting to find?
Did this, then, come as a shock?

I think (and someone else will post who knows better than me) it'd be best to rewind.
Think first what outcome do you want. And work back from there.
If you want to stay with him and be happy, then start talking to him about what you need to do to get there. And forget what you've seen on the phone. ...if he wants to make things better too.
Good luck.

golf?

Have to agree the it makes it sound like a boy toy/car/bike rather than a woman.

To be honest, this doesnt sound that bad to me. I would think he was buying some male krap toy.

Why do u think otherwise?

It sounds as if he's been sounding off to his mates about buying an X,Y or Z and has come out with 'I'm definitely going to get one this weekend'. (And his friend was following up.) That's all.

You're a country mile off evidence of any shenanigans here - he could have been talking about anything.

But why are you looking at his phone and assuming the worst? What's going on?

I thought iPod touch too. If I'd had a recent conversation about which iPod to chose I would say a nano, a.touch etc.

Hope it turns out ok OP.