Do you think an affair can be harmless if it's never discovered?

[Dietxokebreak]

And if its mainly physical, neither party had any intention of leaving their partner and it's conducted at times they would be away from their families anyway?

Your relationship wouldn't work without the trust would it, you are quite right

Well done.

A relationship won't work without trust and yet you have (and would do again) had sex with a bloke for whom trust meant jack shit. Discuss.......

i wouldnt want a relationship with those men. - just sex

Rad, I think it went whooooosh

No but the point is they WERE in relationships where trust should have been important......

I think we just have to accept that Cripps has an astonishing lack of empathy and can't comprehend that harm could be done to someone other than herself.

I think she's proppa kewl innit. Perhaps one day she will be on the receiving end of Nigel dipping his Golden Wick elsewhere, without her knowledge.

Continually chanting 'oooooooommmm' to get my blood pressure back down. And breathe.......

of course i can comprehend the harm it could do to someone else - perhaps i just dont give a shit!

Thank you and good night!

I think we've had quite enough of the attention seeker now haven't we?

I'd get that keyboard fixed if I were you though love. Must be a pain never to be able to use capital letters.

Lovely.

may as well be honest

It's ok, chibbs. We didn't think for one moment you are any sort of decent person. No illusions shattered here

So you have one redeeming quality, who knew?!?

In other news, I remember when MN was mostly populated by people with more than two brain cells to rub together.

Is MN becoming a poor person's Jeremy Kyle, I wonder.....

Me too, Scary. Me too...

Chibbs

For you: with added karma.

Sometimes I miss an intelligent argument, with people who are articulate and know how to structure a nuanced response

"perhaps i don't give a shit" isn't really cutting it

Ok, so if I steal money from someone and they don't realise, that's ok then........ ?

Nah! The only way is a truly open relationship otherwise it's lying.

I think you need to ask yourself how you would feel if you were his wife. The person he promised to stay faithful to, forsaking all others.
How can you have anything to do with a man who would do this to somebody.
There are plenty of single blokes out there who will give you respect, which in turn will give you some respect, because you can't have much nor self esteem to stoop so low.

I don't know, SF, I'm all for reasoned, balanced and considered statements intended to establish a proposition but in this Twitter dominated 140 characters or fewer World, perhaps we need to accept that 'Argument Lite' is the future!

Bollocks to that, Rad

At least use "I" when referring to oneself.

I am not exactly verbose myself.