The Dating Thread 64

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Here we go again...

ham no sitter required thank god...and am quite looking forward to a free evening so am feeling the epitome of generosity. he may be ill...or an eejit. time will tell...and I'll tell you.

Man - on the positive both situations an be improved if the bloke is willing. For me the bad sex has been with blokes with big ones who just hammer away at you

I'm due a name change....I will be back

Yuck at carpet in bathroom!

Geeky guy has suggested we meet at local town in the middle of where we both live, so we can travel to the city centre together. That's a bit cute, but hope it's not awkward. He's asked about our date loads - he's obviously keen to meet up again.

Well, will update tomorrow!

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ham. I'm with you, it doesn't matter what they have in the trouser department, it's what they do with it!

A dirty house would put me off, full stop. A bit of mess I can handle, but a lack of basic cleanliness would repulse me, especially if you were expected!

God luck dont

Supermarket man came round earlier, plan was to go for a walk as we had a few hours before seeing respective DC's, didn't make it out of the bedroom house

So true about a lot of men with a big 'un. They make no effort as you're supposed to just be grateful

Good luck Dontcallme, hope it goes well

Manofmystery I think I prefer average size who can last at least 10 mins! I dont like long sessions as for men with big dicks, they usually crap in bed cos they think they don't have to make an effort

Actually for me the worst sex offence is believing you are amazing when you arnt and refusing to believe what you do hurts/is off putting. Ex of mine thinks he's good in bed and maybe some women have enjoyed him but I found him v rough and heavy handed. He gets v shirty if he's criticised. He had a massive knob incidentally but it didn't make him more appealing.

The best shag I ever had was with a total head case of a bloke who now owns strip clubs in Eastern Europe . I wouldn't give him the time of day but he was amazing!

Ha ha Sweetseraphim -have we been with same guy?????

I had a date tonight with a sweet guy whom I know I won't see again. Just wasn't feeling it and he wasn't my type really. I have date with Pudsey tomorrow and I'm far more excited about him. He keeps trying to talk naughty to me tho. Does everyone have this problem?

I love this thread
A considerate lover is the best, being able to be utterly honest with one another as to what turns you on is the key.
queen you're right! nothing worse than a bloke strutting round thinking he is gods gift while you are

Guys - none of this is persuading me to end my sex drought

hormone I've not had that issue myself. Is it just pudsey who has done this?

Hormonal I think there is a general problem with men trying to get women to talk dirty, seems like they get kicks off getting sexual thrills by women talking about their experiences online.

Seems a bit weird to me, personally without having met the person in question, but hey, horses for courses etc etc

Also seems to me maybe it's happening a bit on this thread at the moment, too..

No a couple of others have tried too but I too tell them it's weird when u not even met let alone DTD

Maybe I'm too friendly

I've had blokes want to talk dirty- it means they are after a fling or a ONS ime. I wouldn't rule out doing it but I'd be under no illusions about having a relationship with them.

Hi bit of a random question here but I wanted to hide my profile on POF over the weekend as not in mood for it but when I tried to it said I have to upgrade to do this! I have hidden it before no problem so rather annoying really!! Isthis the same for others our there?

They changed the rules prisoners, just recently

Really Queen? So prob no point in meeting him then

Geeky guy is the only date I've had who hasn't tried to talk about sex. I think that is a v good thing.

Oh no, I'm not sure whether to cancel now as I definitely want more

Oh ok Bant thanks for confirming that, wonder if more people will just delete their profiles instead!?

I don't think it's possible to delete profiles actually. I couldn't see a way, so my defunct one is just empty text and no picture.. Maybe if I used some random swearwords in the profile text they'd delete it for me?

I only used pof because I could hide my profile, bad decision by them.

I tend to agree, that men who want you to talk like that to them so early on is a red flag for me, unless of course you want that too