sootikins is still (not) sleeping #6

[MrsShrek3]

seeing as I am awake again
come hither!

Mini if I get a tail it must be white cos if it a bright colour I may be mistaken for a lil pony down by the slow flowing stream by the edge of the mystic wood where I would hang out around sunset have checked middle of back no wings so not turning into a pegeuss that would be great missing all the rush hour traffic oooh I need to change my car to a convertable so I dont scrath my horn poor puddy cat x sending good vibes to all tonight < prances around whising tail omg I so want a tail though think starlet would back comb it I saw what she did to her poundshop my lil ponies >

Oh so sorry about Fluff mini. I know how devastated I'd be if I lost my Spider Cat. Big big hugs

You have got wings Stars. It's just you can't see 'em.

oooh mini

I disposed of the ex, daisy. But he is now manipulating me into giving him my address as he promised to pay me back for some things I bought for DS... then he now says he won't do that unless he comes over and sees them first... but he has a false address as I didn't want him knowing where I lived

so, do I take the money and go back on my best attempts to escape, which risks him turning up in the future, or tell him to get stuffed. I have gone with the latter so far but I owe my rent. ho hum.

He seems to have escaped from the patio...

mini - I too shall start earth drinking.

poor Fluff

In all likelihood, he will come over and still not pay for DS things. So lose lose situation.

I think safety more important. arh why can't I be surrounded by normal reasonable sane people

Poor Fluff.

And cafe, I think safety and independence might be the best way forward for you. It sounds like the worst possible outcome of him learning where yo live and turning up and not paying is likely - therefore make sure he can't do it to you and make you feel shite and ragey. The false address sounds perfect to me.

This I also wonder Cafe. Men ain't worth it you know.

sorry cafe..can't see any

In a few months years I will be okay financially - so I will wish I hadn't let him in a moment of 'oh crap so many bills argh' - why does everything need paying in September - double nursery, double rent (long story), plus a course fee...
arg

I suggested he pay half first, then half when he'd seen it (imagining I would not let him see it, or I could somehow blindfold him and let him in temporarily if he was being nice, then blindfold him to get him out, so he had no idea of the address) - but he refused... so I think he has no intention of paying and thus is using as a ploy to see where I am

harumph

daisy, yes that pretty much sums it up!

I can't believe he believes my false address. It's all so, false..

Hmm he sends me messages like 'I have all the power now. Let me in as I havea right to see where my son is living. I am not paying for anything if you cannot even let me in for a coffee. I am in charge. You get nothing. '

and so on

big sigh!

muddy knickers

Cafe I really think you shouldn't give him your address. Stay safe you. Can you get maintenance from CSA? They do not disclose your address to him.

No, he is a professional maintenance shirker and is not working but now has an income. he has never paid maintenance and is proud of this

I think you are right. It's no money in the grand scheme of being safe and feeling okay at home

please remind me again in a couple days

thanks for hearing me whinge

mini - how are you?

themidwife - 9.30am exam?! I guess it's good he got up in the morning, there's a positive!

Cafe he is a prize prick. you have done well without him til now and imho would be wise to keep on feeding him shit using your false address. that's genius btw

You're all sleeping, aren't you?

Nope!

Hurrah!

Did he get to his exam?

Yes by the skin of his teeth stupid mummy suggesting he set off earlier! He's got another one Friday then back at the weekend for the rest of his things & then he's off permanently (apart from visits)!
He said it went ok & he's got lots of freelance work to build up his bank balance again plus good mates to house share with so he'll have a good time.

That's all good and positive - but it'll be very quiet without him. What are you going to do to fill the time?

I was hoping to sleep! Ahem!
I have 3 other DCs & a job so will be pretty busy as usual!

Are you moving today?

Bloody hell. I'm surprised you have a moment to think.

I am being packed today for a move tomorrow - and have woken up with the panics about leaving here. I am so glad that packers are not unaffordable - going through all MrD's things is more than I can cope with at the moment; at least they can do that for me. Still. It'll be better once its done; then I can get on and settle into the new house and stop worrying about leaving here.

wishing you strength for today daisy
and if that isn't enough,

been a bit quiet here tonight...