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Another Thread (LoserNoMore...again)

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LoserNoMore · 10/07/2013 16:58

Hi, so on another thread but not really much further forward, in fact I feel worse. Anyway I've been to the doctors and have Anti D's and referred to a counsellor. Hopefully these will work.

Thanks to everyone for their support on previous threads and PMs too, it is all very much appreciated.

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LoserNoMore · 26/07/2013 20:34

Thanks Core, I'll have a look.

I know you're talking sense cjel. It doesn't really make me feel better but it's a kind of release away from the crap.

Good luck Miffy, how exciting. All the best with the move.

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cjel · 26/07/2013 20:37

i know and we all have to do it our own way, i guess i just came over all maternal!!!

LoserNoMore · 26/07/2013 20:45

Ah thanks, it's nice to know someone cares :) I do appreciate it, enough to make myself a coffee instead and take JD up on his offer of a DVD night.

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cjel · 26/07/2013 20:48

Thank you I do care.that sounds much more healthy and maybe an early night ! perfect,

Alwayskeptalidon · 26/07/2013 22:03

I care too lnm.
May be now is the time for the two of you to sit down and set down some ground rules.
It is hard when everyone is hurt. You did love each other once.

JaxTellerIsAllMine · 26/07/2013 22:22

Been traveling all day. I care too. I'm just bloody done in. Been on the go since 4. And not long got wifi sorted out

Lnm it takes a few weeks for tablets to kick n. give it some time.

And do get some counselling. It will help with self esteem & can give some coping strategies for twunt

Enjoy DVD night. Thanks

LoserNoMore · 27/07/2013 09:31

Morning, hangover free and feeling a bit better. Breakfast in bed, can't beat it. Had a nice night with JD, and morning Wink

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LoserNoMore · 27/07/2013 09:33

Thanks Always. Have a good time away Jax.

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cjel · 27/07/2013 09:33

well done, glad today has started betterSmile

lazarusb · 27/07/2013 10:54

Smile I really like your style LNM!

imtheonlyone · 27/07/2013 11:00

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Morning!!! I've just got out of bed!!! ???? but feeling better for it! Glad you had a good night and morning too Wink. I myself have not had a bad morning Wink. Child free till Friday now which is rare for us with all four of them between us Smile

swallowedAfly · 28/07/2013 07:52

not scared away either. just been a bit awol and distracted by the men are like buses phenomena Confused and i think Grin

glad you had a good night and morning with JD. i tend to think the mornings are even better iykwim.

awaiting jax's coffee. love to all who've been travelling and on missions or preparing to move house or being poorly.

JaxTellerIsAllMine · 28/07/2013 09:12

BrewBrewBrewBrewBrew Has arrived. Morning all, hope everyone is ok. It's raining today but we had a lovely day yesterday. Just walking, playing with dog, fish & chips by river skimming stones

Both kids said they love it here, feels like home. They've got Scotland in their hearts. Made me feel quite sad but happy.

lazarusb · 28/07/2013 16:21

We've done an Activity Day today to raise money for a local Hospice. Was really good except for one family where the adults insisted on 'joining in' (pushing children out of the way), swearing as much as possible, commenting on the chest size of the three women present....we left early in the end Angry. So annoying. Never mind, the Hospice will get their cheque nevertheless and ds still had a good time.

Hope everyone is well.

swallowedAfly · 28/07/2013 16:35

yuk lazarus. sound like such classy folk!

it's a bit cooler today after last night's storm and it's actually quite a relief! was beginning to feel like cooked meat.

lazarusb · 28/07/2013 19:24

I agree SAF. Felt very sorry for the children they were with (as well as the rest of them!).

Definitely a breeze here, not overly keen myself. I like it in the mid 30s. But I know very few other people who like it like that! Grin

LoserNoMore · 28/07/2013 19:43

They sound lovely Lazarus! Tell us more SAF?

I've not done much this weekend. Feel sick about work tomorrow. Dark cloud following me around at the moment :( bleurgh.

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buildingmycorestrength · 28/07/2013 22:43

Bleurgh indeed. Sad Sad.

The thing I hate about going into jobs I've hated is the feeling that it will be forever and I'll NEVER leave and I'll ALWAYS hate my job. But you are applying for other things and something will turn up eventually, and until then it is just an unpleasant way to pay the bills.

Hope it isn't awful. Hope you can detach from it, and surround yourself with a bubble of 'why would I give a shit about that'-ness.

LoserNoMore · 28/07/2013 23:35

Thanks Core. Hopefully it won't be as bad as I'm expecting. Would help if I could get a decent nights sleep too, I'm wide awake.

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cjel · 28/07/2013 23:41

hoping you have sleep soon. an you go to work and feel they need you more than you need them? May not be true but helps to change your mindset about it.

LoserNoMore · 29/07/2013 04:14

Managed to sleep for a couple of hours but wide awake again. I'm so tired but just can't get a decent sleep. I'll probably be in a deep sleep when the alarm goes off at 6.30. Always the same...

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cjel · 29/07/2013 08:59

LNM. I've only just woke up. Hope this morning is good for youx

JaxTellerIsAllMine · 29/07/2013 09:13

will be thinking of you today, hope its not as bad as you expect.

daily Brew for everyone

lazarusb · 29/07/2013 11:42

Hoping today will be ok at work. Maybe your boss will have left had a personality change!

LoserNoMore · 29/07/2013 11:54

Work is fine, well as it can be. I'm not, I can't concentrate. I'm having a quick break outside and a bit of a cry. Don't know wtf is wrong with. Thank god for waterproof mascara.

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