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Another Thread (LoserNoMore...again)

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LoserNoMore · 10/07/2013 16:58

Hi, so on another thread but not really much further forward, in fact I feel worse. Anyway I've been to the doctors and have Anti D's and referred to a counsellor. Hopefully these will work.

Thanks to everyone for their support on previous threads and PMs too, it is all very much appreciated.

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NoMoreLoser · 04/08/2013 20:42

Thanks cjel, and thanks to everyone for all the support. I couldn't just leave on a sour note. I won't be posting again on the thread, I'm not flouncing and not leaving in some dramatic way. It just doesn't feel right any more.I appreciate every post of support since way back in April. I can't quite believe its now August, it'll be Christmas soon.

It's probably a good thing, I can concentrate more on RL support I guess.

Thanks again Flowers

Ps- if anyone is wondering about my username I deregistered but came back to pick up some pm's.

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themidwife · 04/08/2013 22:25

Good luck & I'm sure it'll all work out in the end Thanks

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JaxTellerIsAllMine · 05/08/2013 17:48

Good luck to you.

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toothgenie · 05/08/2013 18:29

Good luck, be kind to yourself, you deserve it. J

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thistlelicker · 11/08/2013 00:27

Sorry to see u have decided to leave your thread! All the best for the future x

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minkembernard · 13/08/2013 00:39

All the best hen. I missed keeping up on your thread for a bit and now you have gone.
You have been through some rough ride through no fault of your own.
I hope it gets betterFlowers

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Fairenuff · 28/08/2013 10:32

Just checking in to see how you've been these last few weeks. Not sure if you're still reading this but we are still here for you if you want to come back with an update, a rant, a moan or a happy anecdote or two.

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NoMoreLoser · 01/09/2013 00:27

Ah thanks for thinking of me fairenuff.

I have finally left my old job and I'm much happier now in my new job. Much less stress for the same money, win win!

Dd's are great as always. Nothing else happening really
, just plodding along with work and girls. Took a step back from JD but still in contact.

I'm a bit tipsy tonight, girls with their dad and I'm soaking my feet after bring working from 7-5 today omg not used to it!

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NoMoreLoser · 01/09/2013 00:37

Ahhhh I felt like it had been months since I posted but its not even been a month.

I'm kinda scared to post for advice for some reason and believe there is lots to say but I don't want to leave mysf open to be accused of lying blah blah. :) I've missed the support of here tbh but I've managed.,.somewhat.

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JollyGolightly · 01/09/2013 01:46

It's good to know you're still there. Brilliant result with the job.
Lots of support here if you need it, I'm sure I'm not alone in thinking of you and hoping that things continue to improve.

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Conina · 01/09/2013 02:07

Oh NML im so pleased something good has happened. Congratulations on your new job. I was a lurker and typed oyt message after message but I never found the right words. Its why I dont post much - fat fingers, tiny phone and a translation error between brain n screen.

There are other boards you could post on?

Im so pleased youre still here and Im sure Iim one of several who have been lookibg out for you x Flowers

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lazarusb · 01/09/2013 19:46

Congratulations on the new job Flowers I've been looking out for you (although August has been a bit mad!). Have been thinking of you though. Hoping things have settled a bit for you in all areas and you are beginning to move forward one way or another x

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skyeskyeskye · 01/09/2013 20:57

I've been lurking mainly but I hope you feel much better soon and wish you all the best for your future.

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tinfoilhat · 02/09/2013 00:44

Good to hear from you and so glad you found a new job and that life is moving forward. We are all still here for support/whatever!

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PyroclasticFlo · 03/09/2013 18:15

Hi LNM (or NML?) Wink I've been off MN for a while, just checking in today for first time in ages and really sorry to see what a tough time you've been having.

It's great to hear that you're in a new job and looking after yourself. As someone else said, don't think about needing to get better soon - there doesn't need to be a time scale. Just treat yourself kindly and use this space to vent / rant / ponder as much as you like.

What a shame someone had to upset you by questioning the truth of what you'd said, this should be somewhere you can come for support.

Sorry I've not been around much lately, but have been thinking of you - big hugs and well done for carrying on, seeking and receiving help. It's all positive, and getting ever more so Flowers

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NoMoreLoser · 07/04/2014 20:58

Taken me ages to find this thread but I just thought I'd pop by. Not sure if anyone will even remember me but thought I'd come on to say hi and thanks to you lovely people who gave me so much support.

I can't believe a full year has passed since my original thread.

Flowers

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Singingbird · 07/04/2014 22:15

I remember your threads. Hope things worked out for you.

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Terrortree · 07/04/2014 22:25

I was thinking about you the other day. How are things?

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ohldoneedtogetagrip · 07/04/2014 22:42

Name changed but yes l remember your threads..
How are you and your DC's?

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NoMoreLoser · 07/04/2014 23:11

We are all good thank you.

Dc's are doing great, just enjoying the start of Easter holidays.

It's been a very long hard year but things are finally falling into place and we are happy.

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Bitofkipper · 07/04/2014 23:24

I remember you and what a rotten time you were going through.
Horrible when posters are driven away from their own threads and cut off from the support on offer.
So pleased things are calmer for you.

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MushroomSoup · 08/04/2014 09:23

I'm checking in too! Lovely to hear from you x

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middleeasternpromise · 08/04/2014 10:11

well done you I love to see people coming through that awful life breaking experience, gives hope to others x

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NoMoreLoser · 08/04/2014 11:38

Thank you :)

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Itsfab · 08/04/2014 12:45

I remember you, NML and saw your first post on your first thread. I can't believe it has been a year so goodness knows how you feel.

I hope you are feeling more positive.

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