Fresh Start, no more losers.

[LoserNoMore]

Just thought I'd start a new thread, general chit chat, moaning, skipping etc before I go to work and incase the other one fills up.

I agree SAF. I did probably need to do some work on why I stayed but another relationship still worked wonders for my self esteem and provided me with much needed support. We took it slowly and he was a gentleman who accepted I might be a bit of a mess at times

where are all these wonderful men? am i just living in a black spot? perhaps you could send your surplus towards middle england please.

I knew you'd all be awaiting an update

Didn't quite make it home, it just felt perfectly natural to stay. Infact the whole night was just natural. No pressure, I wasn't drunk and didn't know what I was doing. It was pretty much prefect. Anyway, he has nipped in to work for a few hours, said he'll bring back lunch if I want. I'm thinking stuff lunch and let round 2 commence!

Man, I needed that!

:)

Round 2!!!!

Oh and there was no onesie or pouch type thong either, thank The Lord.

Yay! Those endorphins are good for you so I'd say round 2 (and 3 and 4) is necessary for your health.

Enjoy your day!

For you. Glad you're having a nice time (not just in the sack although that helps )

For you.

I did have a tiny bit of guilt for a split second but then realised I'm doing nothing wrong, I'm single, not cheating on anyone so nothing to feel guilty about. I do feel this has been a huge milestone in a way, I feel like I can move on. Not in a jumping into a serious relationship way but just in general.

Just to actually laugh again and have fun and have that knot in my stomach disappear for a while is good. I forgot what it felt like.

Good for you!!! Sounds like exactly what you needed!!!! And why the bloody hell not! Like you say, you're single, not cheating on anyone and enjoying yourself!! What's to feel guilty about!!

Round 2 ding ding!!!!!! Enjoy!

great! and yep! remembering yourself in a way. this 'just you' bit that has nothing to do with him or motherhood or whatever but is just you itms.

ooh good for you! Whoever said you need an orgasm was right. Think it was SAF.

This is for you, just you - a person in your own right. Not a mum, wife or anything else.

Enjoy!

Just what you need :)

Focus on the good things of being single

I think I just whooped aloud!
Good on you LNM! You deserve some fun!

Whooooo-hooooo!!!!!!

< tummy-bumps and high fives SAF, Cabbage, Esme, Jax, OnlyOne and everyone else in a large street party of well wishing for you LNM >

Brilliant news! Am grinning!

have you ever had such a cheer squad for a shag before lnm? am guessing not.

have been just lurking for a bit, but well done to you! Glad you had a good night. It is a hurdle to get over and you've done it

Ha never had a cheer squad before!

Well I'm just home, pretty surreal day. Not everyday i do that, mores the pity! Feeling very satisfied and content with this expression on my face my 'friend' (let's call him JD from now on) is so sweet and kind but if he had said "are you sure?" one more time I may have strangled him

Defintely not rushing things though and not going to let myself get too involved but I do like him.

Are you sure?

You little trollop Only kidding

Just consider it as a one/two off bonus and don't go expecting more and you won't get hurt. It is still very early days and your heart/emotions are still bruised.

cabbage!

Definitely not going to expect more xales, my heart is bubble wrapped with some barbed wire around it. No one is getting near that, that's for sure.

Cabbage, don't. I swear I said shut up, get stripped and get your arse over here. He must have gym membership, talk about toned. Sorry i 'll try not and go on about it too long!

YYAAAAAYYYY! I've been away today doing mock interviews and I've been desperate to get back to my laptop just to find out how it went Well done you!

Dh was a 'gentleman' for the first few weeks of our relationship, I was bloody gagging for it by the time he finally realised that yes, I was very much up for it

Glad he looks after himself, he needs to keep up with you LNM!

Pmsl!!!!! This has really cheered me up today! How mad is that??!!!! And I'm not the one who's been having sex all day!!!!!

Brilliant news LNM - enjoy that feeling you deserve it. And take it all in your own time and at your own comfort level. Hooray

Oh, and LNM - imagine that we are all at that retreat together and you're telling us about it!!! What I mean is we don't mind how much or how little you tell us - but if you feel like telling us loads then we're all ears !!!!