Fresh Start, no more losers.

[LoserNoMore]

Just thought I'd start a new thread, general chit chat, moaning, skipping etc before I go to work and incase the other one fills up.

Get stripped and get your arse over here

must have gym membership

LNM you are sooooo worth it. Swish that hair!

Haha. Love it!

Go girl!

Feels kind of bad I'm off work and engaging in this activity during the day. On the other hand if I was still with ex and was off work sick then I wouldn't have thought twice about sex.It's been a good distraction for me plus I can keep going over it in my mind.Tomorrow is going to be so boring in comparison. Washing, scrubbing floors and ironing. Or maybe I should take advantage of the time off during term time and take him up on his offer of round 3...

You've been under a lot of stress and very down. Like I said the Endorphins can help.

So don't feel guilty but see it as a necessary medicine to get back into tip top condition. I'd say you're being irresponsible by not getting him round for a day long shagathon.

Or maybe? What's maybe about it. You would be acting irresponsibly to not accept this therapy!

If it's made you feel better then it must be good As for Round 3, rude not to, surely?

Haha, I was waiting on being told maybe I should spend the day at home, gathering my thoughts and doing motherly chores. You bunch of dirty minx's , I love you! well, I'd hate to be rude or irresponsible. Tomorrow is defintely looking bright. I'll be walking like John Wayne come Friday.

kids finish school v soon in your neck of the woods, so you do what you want to do. It could be a loooooooong dry summer!

Ride 'em cowgirl!

9 more school days left Jax, then 6-7 weeks of holidays. I've a feeling I'd regret not taking this opportunity. Housework v Sex...It's a hard one (no pun intended)

Won't be seeing you here for while then..!

Go for it!!!! If it puts a smile on your face then its worth it

Phwwwoooorrr LNM!!

Is toned?

This is what I call THERAPY!!

I'm grinning like a Cheshire cat here.

Ha he does have a fine physique. I felt some what superior. Need to get my arse to the gym. Did I mention the stamina?!

Man, you are a lucky lady. I felt like his initial message to you was definitely on the right side of cheeky...I.e. not slimy particularly. He's okay, I think. Enjoy.

I mentioned his initial message last night. He was very embarrassed and cringed. He was gutted I had remembered it. Little does he know I shared it on an Internet forum ha!

ah, he cringed... so he knows he was a cheeky monkey and overly cheesy.

but I think the ahem rest makes up for that initial DOH! moment.

And we wont tell a soul.

yeeha!

Ahhh, he must have liked you for a long time! So pleased you're having fun and god get some in every time you can.

You don't need the gym, just take your turn on top, its great for those core muscles, plus that healthy glow, you wont need make up!

Toned body and stamina? Bloody hell I'm jealous and living vicariously through you today. Still living with my ex (although very amicably, no bad behaviour) and feel it would be disrespectful and rubbing his nose in it as he took the initial split quite badly and is an all round decent bloke. I can't wait to get out and have some fun, I'm proper gagging for it so roll on August!

Hope August flies in for you chips. Must be quite difficult for both of you.

It was hard at the beginning but looking back its actually been quite positive. Initially we intended to go our separate ways within a couple of months then he was going through a bad time family wise and needed some support, that cleared up and then it all went tits up for me, horrendous stress and trying to hold it all together. I'd have ended up dropping out of Uni without his support as I'm a long way from family and friends. We're both out the other side and are both moving away in August so no point moving in the meantime.

We've actually become better friends since we split than we ever were together. Our house is big so we have plenty of space and our own rooms. It also means that I'll be in a much better place financially as I am now working solid and will be able to save a chunk of money without having to pay huge bills on my own. He is moving abroad and is letting me have all our joint furniture etc too which makes things easier for me. Actually going to miss him in a sisterly way now when a year ago I wouldn't.

I'm using the time to sort myself out, lost 4 pounds in the last few days and am really getting into a good frame of mind and starting to feel positively about myself again. But still roll on August, I'm going to behave disgracefully on my first night out!

Just read that back and think it sounds all about me! He's in a better place too, went to counselling for family issues and is much stronger emotionally and happier in his own skin. He'd have struggled to afford the private fees whilst living on his own. I also supported him through getting his dream job (that he thought would never want him). We're both excited and positive about life and think it would have been much harder for us both.

This is a very different relationship to one where there was lying and cheating though. We both acted with respect for each other and whilst it was tougher on him initially it was more that he was scared of being alone rather than loving me in that way.

God I've written a sodding novel!

You know what chips? There may not have been lying and cheating involved but hats off to the pair of you for handling the situation so bloody well. I really wish you well, you're a very strong person.

What was the original text message, I missed that.

That means a lot coming from you LNM thank you, I've been in awe of your strength and dignity when most would have crumbled.

Have a great time with JD, he sounds like a decent bloke whether just for fun or maybe more if the time/person is right. Just make sure you fill us in on the juicy details!

just realised I probably look like a mad person who just appeared one day, I posted under on your threads under an old name but my sis discovered my username, rapid NC was necessary!

Chips you sound like a lovely person to have managed all of that.

LNM (trying not to sound slushy here but failing) I am pretty sure I speak for many on the thread who have felt really sad that you've obviously been struggling to lift yourself out of the big black hole. It's so so lovely to hear you tonight all excited and happy. Keep this mood and make it stay :)

Ah I never think anyone is mad for posted on this thread. Tbh I think no one is really that bothered, the replies will dry up one day and it'll just be me, that's what I keep thinking ha!

I appreciate every single reply even if I don't acknowledge it. I post on my phone a lot and it's not the easiest scrolling up, down, back and forth.