Dating thread no 52

[BillMasen]

The first one started by a bloke?

Oh go for it Ike nowt ventured, nowt gained. At worst it's 30 minutes and an average coffee, at best it's the start of something fantastic

Yeah I do fancy the IDEA of him...he looks a bit wacky and I am so impressed with his public art but its a long way to come for coffee if he thinks he is having 'fun'...not Coffee

as in Coffee not, 'not'...oh you lot know what I mean....

Yes, I do know what you mean. I have a tendency to point out in a very straightforward way that there will be no Coffee prior to a date, to eliminate any possible misunderstandings ( my exact words to Software were 'I'm not going to have sex with you' )

Yeah but now....I have suggested 'fun'...oh dear.....

....it seemed funny at the time ...egged on by my mate.... we were in a partiularly puerile mood...

....and he was bloody quick to get back to me too...happy to come here or meet there...I would like to meet but not with the specific intention of Coffee 'fun'..

I got in at 4 this morning. Might as well have stayed in! I ended up been the Fifth wheel to my mate, her mate and two lads they had met the previous night.

I had a random guy come dance with me which wasn't bad till I looked at him properly and he had a face ful of glitter and lipstick on.

Had someone come up to me and luck my face

I just got pissed

Well 'fun' can mean all kinds of things - take him on the waltzers, and say 'look this is fun'

hmmm but I did mention the mars in scorpio thing so he will know I dont mean 'waltzers'...

Sp the guy with glitter n lipsteek sounds like my kinda thing...you could have got his number for me....

Oh Ill take my time replying.....will probably suggest meeting half way therefore no need for disappointment at travel times. Also I may come clean about the slightly 'jokey' aspect of the message but that I am keen to meet up and see if there is any 'chemistry' for future potential.

......another lesson learned re messaging when peesed with your mate...I should know better, she would make most things sound like a good idea ...the more outrageous the better.

Catch up with you all later. Mr R&R has just left the building

Just had to say high five to OWW

Yes high 5 OWW and Kin

....oh see now I am thinking that maybe I should drag him over and have some 'fun' ...its been a while ...he looks more interesting that any of the other choices and options...I am not adverse to a shag on the first date... I am getting older time is running out...blah blah..

ike if you feel like it then of course you should, I still maintain that the whole of the dating thing should be doing what you want, no more doing things you don't want to do just to keep the peace or please someone else.

(I'm knackered)

Omg it now transpires that Titto is married and has another dependent child. And nobody thought to tell me - I take the dc to see his mum and sister every school hols. Feel really let down as they must have known this would affect me and the children.

Or it could all be lies designed to get out of paying - he's done much, much worse in the past.

Whaaaaaat???????????????How long have you been divorced OWW....shitting hell that is 2nd level stuff...whichever option is th right one...bloody bunch of duplicitous nut clusters!!

Trouble is Kin dunno what I want! Horny today maybe not tomorrow...sigh...

What the hell Oww

Kin Knackered becomes the norm, if a good man is involved

Bloody hell OWW that must have been a terrible shock, maybe his mum and sister didn't know what to do for the best - I know that's a bit of a piss poor reason when it impacts on you so much.

Ike - I'm just putting it out there but maybe what you need is a bloke you fancy.

Are you perma-knackered then 48 ?

Oh yeah I do need a bloke I fancy...for some reason I think I might fancy him...might be the mad stare or something..

Oww that is a shock love...xhugsx

It's whatever floats your boat, innit - I have a worrying fondness for men who are grammar pedants and are assertive in a bedroom setting, and I don't mean they demand half the wardrobe space. We all like different things.