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The train has departed Loserville - Next stop Happy Town.

996 replies

LoserNoMore · 23/04/2013 19:06

Just went to post on my other thread but it's full already!

I'll attempt to link it but I'm on my phone so probably won't work.

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1726699-Last-train-to-Loserville-Part-2

Excuse the cheesy title, my brain won't work. Just going to read last few replies on old thread.

OP posts:
LoserNoMore · 28/04/2013 10:45

I did reply with 'Not that it's any of your business, I don't have to answer to anyone. You lost that right the minute you shagged another woman'

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Loulybelle · 28/04/2013 10:48

Nice LNM, make it clear you life from now on is nothing to do with him, i cant believe the cheek of him, he really still does expect you to take him back doesnt he.

Smellslikecatspee · 28/04/2013 10:49

Nice one!

lazarusb · 28/04/2013 11:07

Well done LNM! Grin Ah..the green eyed monster! Did he expect you to be sitting in, crying, alone on your birthday? Does he really think that all men are as blind and stupid as him? I'd be tempted to point out it isn't the first offer you've had either! Ha ha...obviously OW is failing to float his boat in spectacular fashion already Grin

Fairenuff · 28/04/2013 11:08

So what if I go out on a million dates?
You never call or listen to me anyway
I rather rage than sit around and wait all day
Don't get me wrong, I just need some time to play

You're on your knees
Begging please
Stay with me
But honestly I just need to be a little crazy

All my life I've been good but now
I'm thinking, what the hell?
All I want is to mess around
And I don't really care about
If you love me, if you hate me

Another great song to dance around to, Avril Lavigne Grin

Glad you had a good night. He has a nerve but it's obviously rattled him.

Loulybelle · 28/04/2013 11:12

Lazarus, grass aint always greener is it, especially now as LNM is obviously a pretty hot woman, i hope he feels like the biggest twat in the right now.

Also 2 Beyonce songs spring to mind,

"Dont you ever for a second get to thinking your Irreplaceable"

"I bet it sucks to be you right now"

swallowedAfly · 28/04/2013 11:24

terrible generalisation coming up but ime ex's still want you till the minute they think you've shagged someone else (even if they've been shagging around themselves) then suddenly the off switch triggers for them.

swallowedAfly · 28/04/2013 11:25

it is actually as if they still think of you as their property till another man touches you. nice attitude revealed by it.

Loulybelle · 28/04/2013 11:26

SF, i think you bang on there, its a pattern i've seen before.

KatieScarlett2833 · 28/04/2013 11:28

Excellent, I hope his jealousy chokes him Grin
Way to go, girl, YOU are fabulous Grin

LoserNoMore · 28/04/2013 11:57

SAF, I think that's the impression he's under. Tough shit!

Katie, I don't feel fabulous today, I need a greasy fry up. Ex is meeting me in town so I can get the girls then it's fry up time... Oh or a roast dinner. I could eat both.

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Fairenuff · 28/04/2013 12:02

If he asks for more info about what you've been up to just tell him "Don't judge everyone by your own standards". That'll leave him guessing Grin

KatieScarlett2833 · 28/04/2013 12:17

Enjoy your fry up Grin

swallowedAfly · 28/04/2013 12:52

'hmm what could i do that would be as bad as having unprotected sex with another woman and knocking her up and fucking over your wife and daughters in the process? oh that's right, absolutely fuck all!'

Loulybelle · 28/04/2013 13:18

SF, there is nothing lower than that is there, what a twat.

I can just imagine him ready to give LNM a grilling.

ScarletWomanoftheVillage · 28/04/2013 13:19

What a complete wanker!

Bloody good for you LNM Grin

lazarusb · 28/04/2013 13:51

I think it's definitely a proprietary thing, especially as you called time on the relationship. So you may not want him, but you shouldn't want anyone else either. He can do what he likes but you have to conform!

I do not bloody think so. Enjoy your fry-up/roast, possibly both Smile

imtheonlyone · 28/04/2013 14:43

Hahahahaha!! Superb! So someone he knows has seen you out and about in town having fun and looking fabulous!!! Brilliant!! Way to go LNM!!

That has obviously really wound him up and he will so hate the thought of you with another man Smile. Hypocrite indeed though!! His mind will be going insane today!! Bet his OW is less than impressed! Haha!!

Fry up and roast dinner - sounds like a fab plan Wink

getthegirladrink · 28/04/2013 14:46

You rock Wink

WildThongsHeartString · 28/04/2013 14:48

Oh his nose is soooo out of joint.

Sweet!

LoserNoMore · 28/04/2013 15:27

He's such a dick. Meet him to pick dd's up and tried to interrogate me once girls got in the car. 'Did you go home alone? When did you get home? Did you meet anyone?'

'Wouldn't you like to know' obviously wasn't the response he was after.

Got lots of nice presents from the girls, a foot spa which I can't wait to use later, chocolates, pj's and a huge teddy Grin

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Loulybelle · 28/04/2013 15:32

Jeez, i knew he'd start with the questions, so funny to think of him going mental now.

swallowedAfly · 28/04/2013 15:40

ahh and he was all convinced that buying presents for you from the girls would have you desperate to have him back.

mum47 · 28/04/2013 15:48

Hi LNM, I posted way back in the old days of thread one, and have been keeping an eye you fom the sidelines ever since.

Just wanted to delurk to say belated happy birthday, and that I think you are handling things amazingly. Flowers

imtheonlyone · 28/04/2013 15:48

Hooray for the lovely pressies Grin

And hooray for keeping your cool - once again!!! He's obviously desperate to know what you've been up to!!! Silly, silly man! Wink