mini I understand about your daughter, my parents are the same, they just won't ever sir down, even when ill. It really worries me. 
My brother in law is Jamaican and an excellent cook, learnt at his mother's knee. As are his family and friends. There will be pork belly, jerk chicken, mutton
(goat) curry, oxtail, chicken curry, and rice ans pea. Slurpfest. oh and some salad
I usually put on half a stone when I'm there 