Hi y'all! Welcome back stoic Harriett & Bluey!!
Big hugs for the hard times you're having. Really hope the scan is good news today Bluey. 
Thank God we have Jynier here to offer night time support esp re bereavement - I'm useless as I'm from a fractured family & also letting the side down & sleeping at night!!
Wouldn't it be funny if we really did have a party! A fascinating mixture of people from all walks of life & age groups!!
I don't think Cafe actually did the surgery - I imagine that like me in my student days she was probably standing on a crate peering in, pretending to know what was going on & trying to breathe through her mouth!! 