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Dating chat thread! Number 47

999 replies

lubeybooby · 20/03/2013 19:43

Here we go again folks, all dating related chit chat here.

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JulietteMontague · 22/03/2013 16:56

Ahhhhhh I've just counted. It's six months for me. Six MONTHS.

Bant it may not have made any difference if you had said something to exW. It hasn't when I've tried with various people, some people just have not sensuality about them at all, I used to feel like one of them though he was polishing the car and may have actually used that term in frustration in mitigation it was 5 long years when he was attempting foreplay.

JulietteMontague · 22/03/2013 17:00

typo city more than usual with with me today Blush

Movingforward123 · 22/03/2013 17:07

I havnt had any sex for about 5 weeks Hmm since I hurt my leg! And I really want some! My options are:

  1. exp who wAs about to propose to me! Has offered to take me and dd on Holliday! And will pay for couples counselling if I will go Confused

  2. fwb who I havnt slept with since june as he was pissing me off and withholding sex to piss me off and play games! Who has just got engaged and who still is trying to meet me for sex.

And that's it!

Also mrworkaholic who I have blocked in whatsapp and Facebook has also text me so I guess you could say he wants some action too!

That is all my options right now and I can't go out to meet someone new as I can't walk ConfusedConfusedConfused

Crap!! How crap!!!

Movingforward123 · 22/03/2013 17:16

Does anyone know if u can block people on iMessage?

MirandaWest · 22/03/2013 17:23

Don't think you can.....

Flipper924 · 22/03/2013 17:55

Stopping by for a Friday evening check in.

Emergency crash carp is toooo funny. I've scared the dog!

There's lots of lovely dating going on at the moment, I like this.

I'm off out tonight to a 50th birthday meal at a dancing-on-tables place, so will probably not be pulling then. Although a lovely friend said (when talking about ages) he thought I'd have no problem pulling a man in his mid-20s, and that said man would be the one who'd done well! I have a massive crush on this friend.

lubeybooby · 22/03/2013 18:03

Evening all

Quiet night in for me tonight, and probably the next few nights, although DD is away now, just left to go stay with her bf for a few days! I have too much work and stuff to be getting on with so haven't organised anything fun for my free time. Boo, hiss... but it's gotta be done.

I do have Wine though and plenty of it!

Flipper... oooh at that nice comment... pounce! Pounce!

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OhWesternWind · 22/03/2013 18:15

For all of you Interested in the last dating someone with depression thread, there's another one called "Three choices" which may be worth a look and a post as a lot of the advice is heavily biased (again).

Night in for me with my old mate rum - need a stiff one (fnar) as I'm recovering from being locked in my bedroom for half an hour due to a faulty door handle. Scary!

Yep, Flipper, go get him!!!

Moving when will you be up and about again? Can't be too much longer I hope.

Have had a good, frank chat with my mum today which ended in us both hugging and saying we love each other. Can't remember the last time we did that. I seem to be getting somewhat soppy in my old age.

MirandaWest · 22/03/2013 18:15

Pizza and curry here. Then need DC to sort out stuff for staying with XH tomorrow and Sunday nights. Due to various things they haven't stayed there since last Thursday. Am intending to do a 5k park run tomorrow morning at 9 (unless it snows) which is a little keen I think. And then go and mystery shop in Whitby (got nice fee as no one else wants to do it). Sunday is cleaning and tidying as my mum and dad are coming on Monday...

BreakOutTheKaraoke · 22/03/2013 18:17

Hi everyone, just had a quick read through and a catch up- sounds like there's lots of you loved up now! Things are still very quiet here. No dates since Christmas time, no sex since January, and before that A YEAR, not even a bloke to text. Fed up now. Just bulk messaged a load of people who are maybes on POF, hopefully I'll get something back! And I'm having a night out next week, being doing some work in my house so been too skint for a social life for a couple of months. Bank holiday next weekend, so hopefully lots of hotties about.

MirandaWest · 22/03/2013 18:20

OWW really glad you and your mum had a good chat and hug :)

Had hair cut rather than its usual trim today and had a fringe put in. Both children say I look "wrong". Am hoping Mr Nice doesn't share their sentiments. Should i tell him before I see him on Tuesday?

JulietteMontague · 22/03/2013 18:28

We have pizza here tonight to, I made a massive batch of dough the other day which we seem to be living off. I can't believe how much I save when I do that, and it stops the moaning about literally NOTHING in this HOUSE! Grin

Flipper924 · 22/03/2013 18:33

Ah, Lubey and OWW, I would, I sooo woould, and I suspect the crush is mutual, but alas he is married.

OWW, that does sound scary. I hate being locked in anywhere.

Miranda, I think the done thing is to forewarn, but I have a bizarre issue about having anyone comment on how I should have my hair.

Right, time to get make up on.

Enjoy your Friday nights, everyone.

Scrazy · 22/03/2013 18:33

Wouldn't want to be out tonight it's blowing a blizzard. DD is here so I'm not lonely.

Plenty of Wine too. Cheers everyone, happy weekend and stay warm. Have fun you lucky daters. 3 months for me, time I moved on and got out there, hopefully next weekend.

lubeybooby · 22/03/2013 18:41

Oh no flipper! Bloody typical. Here have some Wine

OWW awww at you and your mum, glad you were able to talk

Scrazy snowing here too, ugh.

BreakOutTheKaraoke good luck with your messages!

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JulietteMontague · 22/03/2013 18:42

Miranda DS always did hate it if I changed my hair so I'm sure it looks fine. Mr Nice will just be pleased to see you Smile. Good luck with your run tomorrow.

MirandaWest · 22/03/2013 18:49

I have been procrastinating for months about the fringe and I like it so DC can lump it Grin.

No snow here yet......

VelvetSpoon · 22/03/2013 18:51

Quiet night in here too, or it will be when I get home from work. DSs are at the evil Exs til sunday.

Western, so pleased that things are better with you and your mum.

You saying about hugging her made me think of my mum, and then (of course because he is uppermost in my mind at the moment!) what she would think of C. Amd I know she'd say to do whatever makes me happy, could almost hear her saying it. Made me a bit teary. Miss her ever so much sometimes.

KinNora · 22/03/2013 19:02

9 months, 1 week and 2 days. Not that I'm counting.

OhWesternWind · 22/03/2013 19:46

Oh Velvet you must miss her an awful lot. But her advice is good Smile. Hope you're still feeling happy about C. I think this is a pretty good foundation to build on and the rest will come with time.

Movingforward123 · 22/03/2013 20:28

I've just come online to announce that if I don't get any action soon I'm going to die, it's making me so moody Hmm

48howdidthathappen · 22/03/2013 20:59

OWW you and your mum. I am all smiley for you Smile

Kin You sound like you are about to pop Grin

Hava a fab night Flipper

I shall not complain about 10 days ever again Blush

KinNora · 22/03/2013 21:22

Not quite 48, clearly my shitey sexless marriage served some purpose, as a barren period of 9 months is a mere stroll around the park in comparison.

Velvet fortunately my mum is still around but I can imagine the pain of those times when you miss a parent, it is lovely though that you know that she would always advise you to do what makes you happy, I hope Cuthbert does and will get his arse into gear to make you happier still.

OWW very pleased for you both with LM and your mum.

Hope Flipper and Bant and anyone else out on the razz is having a splendid time and that those of us staying in are drinking booze and eating cake in front of roaring log fires.

Movingforward123 · 22/03/2013 21:32

Well exp is coming over and going to get a pizza and bringing wine Confused

Luckily it's the time of the month so im a lot less likely to pounce on him after a couple of glasses!!!

I'm getting in a tricky situation with exp being around all the times like it but know its probably not a good idea!

OhWesternWind · 22/03/2013 21:36

Staying in is a good thing tonight. It's a howling blizzard out there. I have alcohol, chocolate, naice crisps and a fleecy blanket that's currently been annexed by two cats. Got a good weekend ahead then thrice short week at work. Life is good.

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