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Dating chat thread 46

999 replies

lubeybooby · 14/03/2013 13:37

all dating related chit chat here!

off we go

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JulietteMontague · 17/03/2013 12:28

Ike your reformation is like that episode of SITC when Charlotte has to be rescued from her Rabbit Grin

ike1 · 17/03/2013 12:34

I know Jule....from iron clad knickers to food enemas and sex dungeons in the space of 2 days!!

OhWesternWind · 17/03/2013 15:10

See, what did I tell you? Nice phone call off LM. Work almost finished in the shop, official opening tomorrow (though it's been sort of open last week for appointments). All good stuff. He's not been sleeping well with worrying about shop things, so I hope he'll be able to relax a bit soon.

lubeybooby · 17/03/2013 15:17

Ah good stuff OWW.

TT has blocked me on fb. AIBU to blackmail the bastard?

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Snapespeare · 17/03/2013 15:35

Blocked you on fb!

What a fucking coward.

48howdidthathappen · 17/03/2013 15:48

Blocked you. That is really nasty. Sorry.

48howdidthathappen · 17/03/2013 15:51

Gonna walk my dog. Make enough flapjacks to live off for a week.

Then the hospital. Oh joy.

lubeybooby · 17/03/2013 15:53

I know! I never even messaged or chatted to him on there or anything. Suppose that answers the question though doesn't it. For whatever reason he's not coughing up the promised amount and obviously thinks he's right not to.

This is the man who sobbed about his condition and being ashamed of himself for not getting a vasectomy. And who couldn't eat for a week for all the worry that I might want to go ahead.

Baffling and yes cowardly. wtf?

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48howdidthathappen · 17/03/2013 15:56

Honestly Lubey I could easily give up men if it wasn't for the sex. Bloody sex will be my downfall.

OhWesternWind · 17/03/2013 15:58

Lubey what a cowardly, nasty thing to do. Loads of hugs to you. Must be like a luck in the gut when you're expecting him to do the decent thing. So sorry he's turned crap, well worse than crap.

Snapespeare · 17/03/2013 15:59

I tend to think those who block on fb are a little bit self important and believe that their rejection will lend the wounded party to boil bunnies all over their wall. In reality, it's far nicer to have a good rant about them far, far away from fb, occasionally updating ones b with what a splendid time you're having of things.

The faceblock is the epitome of self aggrandising passive aggressive twattishness.

mercury7 · 17/03/2013 16:11

I am noticing on POF a preponderance of names like 'brian-wants-to-give-you-one' and 'dave-shag-and-run'
whatever makes them think that will work??
would I call myself 'sarah-pet-assassin'

just read a blokes profile, 'So why not through caution to the wind and have some fun'

another says 'Rocking & Rolling and weaving threw the punches...'

shit for brains

JulietteMontague · 17/03/2013 16:12

lubey I think it's more cowardice as in not being able to face you than some attempted slight. Whatever, not acceptable. You need the money, he owes you the money, gloves are off. Do whatever you need to do.

WarmFuzzyFun · 17/03/2013 16:16

Small claims court Lubey?

KinNora · 17/03/2013 16:16

I'm sorry, Lubes what a pathetic person he turned out to be. How enormously disappointing.

lubeybooby · 17/03/2013 16:18

well Juliette I happen to have saved a few of his friends and families pages, because i thought he would do this... just a nagging feeling. I'm considering sending them screenshots of the skype conversation where he made the promises that he would do whatever it took to make it easier on me, and agreed a specific amount for going private.

I don't know if I should really just forget it and take the hit myself though. he did pay some of it after all.

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ike1 · 17/03/2013 16:18

I find TT's behaviour so offensive...sorry Lubes yep...do what needs to be done. x

lubeybooby · 17/03/2013 16:19

WFF it's not worth the small claims court fees. Plus I can't remember his address! I know his workplace though.

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KinNora · 17/03/2013 16:19

Oh, and a baking afternoon here too, I think know it's because I need some sexy time.

OhWesternWind · 17/03/2013 16:20

What kind of percentage has he paid so far *Lubey?

Whether you do anything else just has to be your decision, what you would feel best with.

ike1 · 17/03/2013 16:25

Kin get on effing IE for the final time!

Winefiend · 17/03/2013 16:26

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mercury7 · 17/03/2013 16:26

Unless there is some kind of written agreement I cant see that Lubey would have a leg to stand on legally (?)

Of course he has behaved like an utter cad but it just sounds as if he was so desperate to avoid her going ahead with the pregnancy that he said whatever he thought would make her have it terminated asap.

Perhaps the facebook blocking was because he thought she might post something on there that would let his friends know what a bastard he's been?

I'd probably be tempted to let his friends & family know

WarmFuzzyFun · 17/03/2013 16:27

Perhaps have a good rant and be absolutely fucking furious for a day or two then move on. He knows, he is a bastard. What a low down good for nothing!Angry

lubeybooby · 17/03/2013 16:27

he's paid 55% of what he said he would OWW

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