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Dating chat thread 46

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lubeybooby · 14/03/2013 13:37

all dating related chit chat here!

off we go

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KirstyWirsty · 20/03/2013 11:04

I'm on the mini pill .. Next man will be getting a belt and braces approach of condoms plus pill

velvet still no word?

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Snapespeare · 20/03/2013 11:07

oh blimey lulu and Velvet sending woo! get those S's P'd on.

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lubeybooby · 20/03/2013 11:10

I've gone back on the pill... mini pill this time as I did get on quite well with it before, years ago. I'm actually loving it, no PMS or anything so far and I've lost weight (cerazette)

I vowed against anything hormonal after the horror of nexplanon, but this pill is actually fine.

As for testing. I ordered from ebay (from a same day dispatch seller who sends 1st class)

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KirstyWirsty · 20/03/2013 11:18

I'm on cerazette too lubey no more periods .. Fantastic!! Grin

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lubeybooby · 20/03/2013 11:25

Yeah :o I had another brand years ago which I liked but this is even better... never had weight loss as a side effect before. Happpyyyyyy :o

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MirandaWest · 20/03/2013 11:29

I have a coil (but still get irrational pg worries sometimes Hmm)

Every so often I stock up on pg tests from eBay.

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ike1 · 20/03/2013 11:34

oooh might give that a go then! No pmt, periods, weight loss whats not to like?

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lulubellaboozle · 20/03/2013 12:34

Stand down!!

well they are £3.59 in Sainsbury's but money well spent! a quick POAS in the loo at work and all is well! not pg, just late, phew! large glass bottle of wine tonight!!

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ike1 · 20/03/2013 12:35

Oh good Lu.x

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lubeybooby · 20/03/2013 12:37

Nice one lulu, glad you got the result you wanted judging by the 'phew!'

Now then where is velvet... hope you're ok?

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lulubellaboozle · 20/03/2013 12:45

lubey at 47 years old with 2 kids of nearly 13 and 15, it most definitely is the result I wanted! feel quite skittish now Grin

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ike1 · 20/03/2013 12:46

Yeah Lu ..good grief!

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lubeybooby · 20/03/2013 12:51

:o

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OhWesternWind · 20/03/2013 12:57

Phew indeed Lulu! Definitely a wine night I think!

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AndLibbyMakesThree · 20/03/2013 13:12

What a relief Lulu. I had to poas a couple of months ago and was so relieved when it came out negative! I knew it was unlikely because of my age (45) and we'd been using condoms, but was starting to get really worried. (It turned out that Mr C has actually had a vasectomy as well - really wish he'd thought to mention that beforehand, it would have saved a horrible week of worrying).

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48howdidthathappen · 20/03/2013 13:16

Phew! Indeed Lulu

I have gone through the menopause early. Hallelujah Grin

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JulietteMontague · 20/03/2013 14:28

Lulu good result Grin and Libby I've only known one man with the snip and he didn't mention it either. Maybe, it's a 'thing' (based on extensive survey of two) Hmm

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Snapespeare · 20/03/2013 14:30

as we are all sharing test results, my STIs all came back negative - which caused slight confusion, at the possibility of a herpes miracle cure Hmm but they hadn't retested... so my syph, gon, HIV and chlamydia are all big fat negatives as well.

yay for my foof!

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lubeybooby · 20/03/2013 15:02

Yay snape! I had a load of tests done too when I went for various appointments recently... I was pretty sure all would be ok bar whatever baffling thing happened to the condom that allowed conception to happen, but anyway all clear again. Yay for mine and snapes foofa :o

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lubeybooby · 20/03/2013 15:03

Juliette, adding a third person to the survey the only one I've known who had the snip was very vocal about it, I think in the hope that he could have some gloveless lovin'

No.

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KirstyWirsty · 20/03/2013 15:23

lubey TheAuditor was the same Hmm

Just had hopefully my last text from mr cheeky

Im deleting ur number. Wont contact again. Sorry for this whole mess.

Not sorry for mucking me about .. Sorry for his own mess .. Anyway Next!!! How is OKC in Glasgow area or should I stick with POF?

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JulietteMontague · 20/03/2013 15:51

Kirsty it is his mess that he generates and he still seems to think it's external forces. He should be apologising for his behaviour as you say.

The last man I had sex with said he knew he was safe because he was healthy and you'd be able to tell if someone was HIV positive Hmm. Condoms obvs but looking back, I'm amazed I put up with him for 3 weeks, he told me I was constantly argumentative and I was because he kept coming out with crap that I just couldn't ignore..

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KirstyWirsty · 20/03/2013 15:55

I have found the 3 men that I have slept with since splitting from STBXH all VERY reluctant to use condoms

(We did use them btw)

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ike1 · 20/03/2013 16:04

Oh yeah condom avoiders....what a chore...Yay for the foofs tho!

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Scrazy · 20/03/2013 17:04

Hello, I'm back from my travels and have managed to catch up with all the happenings.

Lubey so glad you stuck up for yourself. IME if you have evidence that someone has agreed to pay you something it's worth perusing as if it ends up in court they will have to pay. Glad it didn't and glad you got your money.

Voice, hope you are ok?

Will check out the SS thread when I get chance. It's not the first one started by the poster I've seen others with photos identifying said poster.

Glad to hear people are getting help with the blues, it's not something I've experienced myself but wouldn't hesitate too if need.

Hi to all the hussy's with the IE profiles Grin Anyone made a date from one yet?

Nothing much to report from me re dating except that I might meet someone if he asks. Someone I had a date with a few weeks ago and didn't here back tried to add me on some social site that I'm not on. I ignored it.

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