Dating thread no 45

[JulietteMontague]

Online and real life dating chat, all welcome

Ah, Rose, if only me were that candid in their messages or profiles, it would save a lot of time.

Lucky escape, Lubes, have a fab time in Glasgow today. Your Scotlandish seems to be coming on well .

It's nice to hear that there are some lovely me out there, even if none of them seem to live anywhere near me.

Happy Mother's day to all the Mothers, and happy birthday to 48's daughter.

Ah its her birthday ...I see 48...hence the flowers (duh...slow today) Oh and where is Bant????

Happy Mother's Day

Oh no ex from last night has sent me a message on pof. The email notification has just come to my phone. I can't read it though until i go on the pc because i have all adult content blocked on my phone.

wish I could smoke in this room... fucking windows don't open ... grumble mutter

delete, block, Jan.

'up the duff'??
Are we back in the 1970's

My pubes are Merc...

Oh no! It says Boo Sexy!

He's never in 12 years given any hint to this.

There's no way in gods earth I want anything to do with him. We were only together a month and he was a control freak. I've never totally got rid of him and he still justs pops over. I can block him on POF but he knows where I live and will just come over.

Can anyone help with what to message him so he gets the message that there's no way no how no where.

Did you put them in a time capsule Ike:o

Jan..he sounds potentially very problematic, you're an independent adult, you're in no way beholden to have, why would you even let him in if he 'just comes over'?

I have no idea, I just don't want to be rude and I have been friends with him. He's never given any indication of this.

jan

Fuck off & leave me alone.

:)

I like that Snape.

ha Mercury7, I was being tongue in cheek. I wouldn't know anything about the 70s though, I was born in 86 .

Janflan, gosh, you dodged a bullet there..

Rose - 1986? You young whippersnapper. Fortunately I was born in the id-1970s, so I don't really remember it....

Snape is always a voice of REASON

Ok I am thinking,

You were out of order last night. There's never going to be anything between us. I don't believe in going backwards. Leave me alone now.

Does anyone remember The Major from a couple of months ago. Army, seemed like a nice guy, I thought he might have drink problem, said we would meet up as friends to go walking. He text me the early hours yesterday asking if I still want to meet up. Fast forward a few texts, he is then on Whatsap and asks for a picture of what I look like 'now' and when do I want to meet . So I ask if he knows who he is talking to. Yes, you're the Australian with the big boobs and when do I want to meet as he 'wants to give me some luvin'. So, so much wrong with that but it was the 'luvin' that really did it for me .

Lubey I do hope date comes good this evening, is the alternative one still a possibility?

Jan yep, a big fat fuck off is overdue.

Jan no reason necessary, you don't need to justify yourself or give him an excuse to argue.

So how about I take the 3rd sentence out?

I took him and our relationship for granted. Is there anyway if i change and if he changes we can survive this? and get counselling to make this work? does the fact that he's trying to have hook ups instead of another relationship make it any better, i.e. that he's not checked out of our relationship but looking for sex only?

on the other hand i also know he wouldnt want to lose anyv of the assets we've built up over the years. so may be that's why its just sex.

i dont know anymore.

i just read a post on dating thread 45 just to see reality life after the end alone. and its not good and i'm terrified.

Juliette - I didn't know you were Australian... I have a thing for Australian accents!

Bloke I called shallow last night has just text me. He say's he's going swimming today and will be sure to stay in the SHALLOW end!

if there's nothing in your room that says no smoking, does that mean it's a smoking allowed room? haha.

It's so nice though I don't really want to smoke in here and sully it - which is a bit odd for a hardened 20 a day smoker to be saying.

lifts to downstairs to nip out for one are fast and plentiful so it's not too much bother really. I would totally smoke in here if the windows opened though, I'm good at leaning right out and making sure the wind direction goes in my favour taking it all away.

I have date news... we're on for 6pm. Sorted.

The other one turned out not to have read my profile properly and had his DD this weekend so couldn't meet, but he has booked in to a local place (near me) next weekend and is going to come and visit and take me out! Mad, but I like him. haha. Life's too short eh I'm quite impressed with his spontaneity and willingness to travel (as well as awesome sense of humour)

Janflan, that literally made me laugh out loud! ha!