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Dating thread no 45

999 replies

JulietteMontague · 08/03/2013 21:59

Online and real life dating chat, all welcome

OP posts:
lulubellaboozle · 13/03/2013 12:42

Shit, if Mr EA ready this thread he would think I am more of a fruit loop that he may do already Grin. He knows I MN, but no more than that! just googled dating thread no 45 out of curiousity and it came up with my post at the beginning of this thread - is that just co-incidence because i am on the same PC or are all my laments about bastard STBXH, out there for all to see Blush

Rock thank you for your advice. From what I am understanding a £35K dividend was declared but I only received £9K, the remainder stayed in the company and was used by my ex. I see what you are saying about it being my money and I certainly didn't agree to it remaining as I didn't even know about it until today! waiting to speak to Ex and Accountant but that is worth having up my sleeve. I don't know what or what isn't in the company, when I first suspected he was cheating and I visited a solicitor to find out where I stood, I came home and found the house stripped of every piece of personal/business/financial information just empty folders sitting on shelves.

Western oh lord, I do know where you are coming from Smile, I'm useless at taking my own advice, but we all KNOW from what you post and what LM says and does that he is in love with you, wants to be with you and there is nothing wrong. I'm afraid I am south of the river otherwise I would love to have a cuppa with you ....... we could chat forever!

mercury the Jordache's have a lot to answer for!

lulubellaboozle · 13/03/2013 12:42

read not ready!

WarmFuzzyFun · 13/03/2013 12:45

I am in the Thames Valley OWW, is that any use re:tea and chat buddies

Bant · 13/03/2013 12:48

lulu - as I've mentioned before, I'm not a general believer in karma. But your ex trying to screw you out of tax, or save money for himself, and accidentally informing you that his business owes you 26K per year for the last several years. And he's going to be possibly bankrupted because of his greed.

That is a lovely story.

Bant · 13/03/2013 12:49

OWW - I'm in Budapest. The tea here is terrible but the biscuits are great if you're in the neighbourhood... :)

MirandaWest · 13/03/2013 12:50

Think OWW is in the North West

mercury7 · 13/03/2013 12:50

Lulu, he sounds like a man with alot to hide!
and oh yes, inspired by the Jordache saga my patio is very extensive (only joking I live in a flat)

OhWesternWind · 13/03/2013 12:54

Oh thank you Lulu and WFF - I'm up in the north west so a bit too far. Sending you a virtual Brew though. Really do appreciate all the friendship I get from you on here.

OhWesternWind · 13/03/2013 12:55

Bant - will take you up on the offer of a Budapest biscuit though - just hold on while I book my flight . . .

lulubellaboozle · 13/03/2013 12:56

Bant it would be for the last 6 years, but he likes to liquidate companies when they start owing lots of money to each other or HMRC. i don't think he does anything illegal but he certainly treads a fiine line. I have asked the Accountant to call me and have heard nothing, think after Rocks post that he may just have realised that he has put his foot in it Grin. if I say his Accountant is based in the Channel Islands with just a PO Box no, it gives you an idea of the way he operates!

mercury7 · 13/03/2013 12:56

bankrupted by his greed...and the fact that his aspirations to duplicity outstripped the capacity of his intellect

In other words if you live a life of deception you need to operate at higher level orders of intentionality than those you are attempting to deceive (

mercury7 · 13/03/2013 12:57

sounds well dodgy!!

WarmFuzzyFun · 13/03/2013 13:02

Is it shallow to rule out all Taureans as my ex was one? I find them too similar, or is it a case of a self fulfilling prophecy??

Lulu, you should be able to get hold of his published accounts and see how much he gave to shareholders/directors etc and then you are due some serious money by the sounds of it!

mercury7 · 13/03/2013 13:08

I'd say it was irrational, rather than shallow WFF :o

Bant · 13/03/2013 13:09

Yeah, it's a self fulfilling prophecy.

I'm an Aquarian, so I'd make a great hockey player, but not, strangely, a good football player. Weird, that.

lulubellaboozle · 13/03/2013 13:14

Bant bet you're a good swimmer though?

WFF would be nice to think I was going to come into loads of money, but everything will be long gone ...... I think the whole star sign thing is a bit irrational too, to be honest when there are so many other obvious factors to reject potential suitors on, do you really need to add star signs into the mix love that word, suitors!, so old school

Mercury " his aspirations to duplicity outstripped the capacity of his intellect" is that posh speak for fuckwit?!

WarmFuzzyFun · 13/03/2013 13:30

I thought I was Grin Another Aquarian here.

Okayyyy, but I don't even like the way they message me, I can tell before I look at their profile, I can!

OhWesternWind · 13/03/2013 13:31

Oooh my neighbour is going to come round for wine, probably Friday!!

She has just sent me another text saying "Ok babes loves you" which I hope was meant for someone else . . . At least she didn't hun at me Hmm

RockWithaJaggedyBit · 13/03/2013 13:33

he likes to liquidate companies when they start owing lots of money to each other or HMRC. i don't think he does anything illegal but he certainly treads a fiine line

Lulu taking 156k of your money (26k x 6) is not even close to legal!

lulubellaboozle · 13/03/2013 13:35

WFF how does a Taurean message - is it all bull in a china shop?

are Pisceans, a bit fishy? and Scorpions have a bit of a sting in the tale? oh god, MUST get a full-time job and stop amusing myself on MN.

As you were ....

lulubellaboozle · 13/03/2013 13:36

hmmmm good point Rock Grin

Scrazy · 13/03/2013 13:36

Lulu, you need to get your own advice on this one I would say.

I suggested we chatted on chat so it disappears after a while but others disagreed and said they had nothing to hide. Must admit I'm careful what I say on here just in case. Which is a shame but it's an open forum and gogglable.

ike1 · 13/03/2013 13:37

Lulu you know my thoughts on Scorps and the POF pond is full of them

JulietteMontague · 13/03/2013 14:47

OWW arf, that text has taken me back to an ex who shortly after we finished found some Pat Butcher looky likey woman and they would fb each other 'luffs you babes', 'Fanks, luffs you more' from the same room. There was good reason why I pressed eject.

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MirandaWest · 13/03/2013 14:49

Argh am having one of those days where I achieve bugger all. Bollocks. House still a tip, didnt go running. Good thing tomorrow I am actually Doing Something.

Anyone else get days like this?