Oh blimey Lulu that's the last thing you need to deal with at the moment! I'm not sure how all this works but hope you can get it sorted out very quickly . . . It does sound a bit dodgy but I've no idea if this is normal practice or not. Do you have a solicitor acting for you at all who can tell you what is best to do here? And I hope the other job works out for you as well.
Snape you have only said lovely things about Nameless on here (Hello Nameless!!) so nothing to worry about. It's clear from your posts how much you like him and now he knows that irl it's all fine. Having said that, I'd feel a bit odd about LM reading my posts, well more than a bit odd! It's so important to me to have this as a space where I can say whatever I want without having to censor myself and I think I would if I thought he could be watching.
WFF sorry you are feeling a bit low about the OD stuff. If it were me, I'd go along and meet him and see how you feel. I think it's the whole package, so if the rest of him is pretty lovely, it's easier to overlook the teeth. I don't think LM's teeth are great, mine aren't either as they are crooked at the front, but that is all okay. He has a pretty good body but a bit of a pot belly which honestly I did not notice until he started going on about it! (Lesson learned: Do not draw attention to problem areas that people wouldn't otherwise notice). Oh god, there are so many things wrong with me body-wise that I will get depressed if I start thinking about them all.
Getting jittery about LM again. I am starting to see how this works - I see him, things are lovely, I feel good, this lasts for a couple of days (Sunday night through to Tuesday night, for example) and then the whittly thoughts start to creep in. I start rehashing conversations and thinking "Why did he say that?", "What did he mean by that?" and wondering why he's not texted today and all sorts of stupid stuff. I am seeing him tonight though so maybe that's the way to tackle it all, just see him a little bit more often. Difficult though sometimes with all the other stuff going on for both of us.
I have friended him back on FB but not his Little Friend! Actually, I do feel quite sorry for her, she's in a bad place really, will hopefully meet her when she comes up next time. But I can do without all her status updates about LM all the time. I think she is just a bit lonely like me. I really need to find some RL friends, just cup of tea and a chat type friends, but it is so difficult as I don't really know anyone where I live now and because I work full-time in a different town I miss out on all the school stuff, can't go out on a regular basis to any groups until the children are older and can be left for an hour or so . . . bit stuck here. I have a lot of text/message/phone friends which is great and of course you lovely lot on here, but I just want a couple I can pop round to for half an hour in the evening.