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Dating thread no 45

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JulietteMontague · 08/03/2013 21:59

Online and real life dating chat, all welcome

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janflan · 10/03/2013 22:15

I'm a bit worried he's got my mobile number and lives so close by. Literally up the road. He doesn't know exactly where but if he finds my business info or my sir name it wouldn't be hard to find out.

I've replied that I don't think we're compatible, I need a lot of freedom and wish him all the best.

ike1 · 10/03/2013 22:16

Cool Lubes.. did he look like his photos? You are brave btw...

JulietteMontague · 10/03/2013 22:17

Lubey Grin. I like the Freudian slip too 'one more but very Grin'

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lubeytoobooby · 10/03/2013 22:21

Haha! ONCE more, once, once... slightly tipsy again

janflan · 10/03/2013 22:28

Argh!!!!! Now i'm shallow apparently and he's too nice!

So I told him he made me uncomfortable and I don't need that level of control from someone I haven't even met.

Lessons learnt today -listen when people tell you to stay away from the twunts
If someone is rude to you once on OD don't reply ever
Don't give your mobile number out

Your date sounds lovely Lubey.

Winefiend · 10/03/2013 22:30

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ike1 · 10/03/2013 22:33

How marvellous a 'gentleman' has suggested I drive all the way to Llanelli for a shag, cos he feels depressed and has been 'without' for a year. Dear Lord in heaven....

ike1 · 10/03/2013 22:35

Oh there..Wine..fancy a Llanelli visit?

janflan · 10/03/2013 22:35

Now he says he'll find someone with his looks and personality but good luck to me.

I am tempted by the MEGALOLZ from earlier but I think I shall just ignore now.

ike1 · 10/03/2013 22:36

Besides I have orrible wind after eating cabbage for lunch...shoulda let the boyo suck on that..!

ike1 · 10/03/2013 22:36

Oh Jan what a relief!

EternalRose · 10/03/2013 22:36

Winefiend - "No it's a fag you cretin" Literally made me laugh out loud! Grin

lubeytoobooby · 10/03/2013 22:40

Winefiend I was in IE but kept my pics and profile totally non sexual... no cleaveage or mention of it apart from saying I don't like jumping straight into bed and so wanted to be out enjoying the city and having a bit of build up. I think I gave a brief description of me too and said I was only available one night

I did get a couple of cock shots and some crap 'hey bb' type messages and the odd potato but VASTLY vastly fewer than when I've done IE in my area before.

ike, he did look like his pics yes... and we added each other to facebook earlier and both have loads of pics on there so it was all good. I like to see pics of them with their friends so I know they aren't lying about height and build.

It was great! I've had such a good night. I feel all fired up now though so even though we were sensible finishing early I'm tempted to go down to the bar now for a nightcap or two and my post coital nicotine.

Must locate clothes.

ike1 · 10/03/2013 22:41

Yeah do it Lubes...enjoy!

MirandaWest · 10/03/2013 22:42

Clothes might be a good idea Grin

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ike1 · 10/03/2013 22:53

I know wine I was touched (nt)

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CastroIsDead · 10/03/2013 23:38

i have a 3rd date next week Smile
i say date i mean he is coming to my house to watch a film and have sex. is that bad?

ike1 · 10/03/2013 23:41

Yeah Wine...my mate reckoned that was the case ... I am surprised! I know everyone must think I have a real problem with Scorpios but HONESTLY the amount of blokes on POF who are Scorpions is UNBELIEVABLE!!

Oh I have a whole in box full of spuds Wine ...want me to share???

ike1 · 10/03/2013 23:44

However....I have just seen THE most gorgeous bloke EVER..on there. I dont understand why he is on there. His inbox must be chocca. Its so odd that there are the occasional beauties...

lubeytoobooby · 11/03/2013 00:02

I never paid for IE

Enjoyed my nightcap a lot! Still feel wide awake though ho hum

What was I gonna say.... it's gone.

Oh yeah! Anyone I didn't fancy got blocked. Plus the crap ones and potatoes etc... insant block. No time to be faffing around deleting, when block stops repeat message... as the few I didn't block that I was considering kept on sending messages while I was considering replying... so that got them a block too. Don't be remotely forgiving or nice it gets you nowhere, just hassle. What I mean is, don't feel bad about it. It's the only way to wade through all the responses otherwise so many will clog your inbox you won't know who any of the decent ones are anymore. Anyone rude/crass/potato-ish... instant block.

God I must sound really hardened and cynical etc... but I really couldn't cope with any other way, and hey it worked...

ike1 · 11/03/2013 00:04

Honestly now ladies have a look at Jimberland (POF) WHY does he need to be on there for gawds sake!

JulietteMontague · 11/03/2013 00:12

Ike interesting, I can see why he's beautiful but does absolutely nothing for me. Go get him woman!

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