Here we go again. Dating thread 42

[VoiceofUnreason]

Evening all. As you were.

well, ideally I like to do my yoga session @ 8.30

Are you going to yoga for him on Skype Mercury?

The problem is the underwear has to come off at some point and that's when I feel really wobbly this might help tho

And I think I feel more self conscious with him because he is slim and I normally go for bigger guys that are quite muscly! But them being bigger makes me feel smaller!

But he did say before that he found me attractive but just never thought I would be interested in him, so hopefully he is too busy feeling lucky

not unless he wants to pay me western! :o

moving he very possibly feels self conscious about being slim rather than muscular...men have body issues too!

oh! he says he's ready now

Moving leave the underwear on!! He's told you he thinks you're attractive, is here to see you again so he must have liked it last time ... He likes you! Enjoy it.

oh I dont fucking believe it!!
it was going fine...then he leaned back, I saw that he had his dressing gown on and was about to knock one out..I logged off quickly

Ewwww really?? Yuck.

Thanks western and mercury but I can't leave the underwear on, from what I remember he just goes in for the kill and gets me naked really quick! So what about this business of him not cuming or taking hours? That can't happen tonight with dd here, what can I do to speed things up? I'm not sure if it's something to do with me or if maybe he doesn't feel so comfortable yet!

Mercury - yuk yuk yuk how long had you been chatting to him before you decided to Skype chat? That's why if anyone asks me for a chat I would say no!

yes really!!
how vile of him

I've had alot of skype chats via OD and it's never happened before, actually I'm glad I didnt waste ages messaging him or actually meet him, 5 mins on skype and he showed his true colours.
It was pretty easy to spot what he was up to and I hung up as soon as I was sure

Goodness me Merc...no previous indication or anything???

Oh yuk! What a sleaze. Well spotted Mercury

Mercury sorry he did that, it's vile, I don't know why they think it's acceptable. I used to skype not any more mostly because it is almost impossible to see it coming (no pun intended but scarily accurate). One minute they are chatting normally, the next it's knob out time. Horrible.

it was a horrible thing to do, but I'd rather find out quickly if someone is going to be rude and do things like that without my permission ...but no other red flags, no cokc shots or anything.
If I was up for 'webcam fun' it'd be fine, but it leaves me cold!

I take it that happened to you on more than one occasion Juliette?

Moving he may take his time coming for a variety of reasons, none of which will be to do with not finding you attractive as clearly he does. You can always ask him to stop if you want to.

He does make sure you have a good time too? you mentioned you were drunk last time and that he goes straight for it so maybe I am just reading too much into that.

Mercury, oh no did he indicate he was wanting web cam sex? I know the sites you are on are less about relationships, but if anyone says to me they want to skype I spell it out. No naughty business.

Moving, an ex was like this, I didn't like it and found it boring tbh. I like things to work properly. Also another one was like this at first but it came right after we'd been seeing each other a while. I don't know why it happens, perhaps one of the guys will be able to tell us, honestly. It could be nerves.

Mercuy yes a couple of times and I've had men try to 'groom' me on cam a lot until I wised up to the type. The last one was sitting at his desk, and I was sitting in the kitchen having my morning coffee and we were chatting away. We'd been chatting for over a year, just mailing and that day I accepted cam as I was still in pjs, bed hair and it was all innocent. He came out with the classic 'I have something to show you', then walked off and came back tugging his erection. I shut the lid on him. Arse.

Scazy mine wasn't even from a dating site, they can be from anywhere.

Has anyone done this willingly and enjoyed it? A friend of mine did it purely in the interests of research to see how far it would go. She said it was on speed date and he was a young, fit, doctor iirc

Juliette honestly its beyond belief really...

Some men are real exhibitionists, affect all walks of life, even Ashley Cole famous people.

yes it's a casual dating site, his profile was polite, head and shoulders pic, he messaged me, I suggested a chat on skype, there was no flirting, no rude/explicit messaging or anything leading up to the skype.

God knows why he thought it was a good idea, the internet is full of porn why choose to jerk off in front of me...not that he got chance to start much less complete the act, I logged off PDQ
he must have got off on exposing himself..it's rather horrid because it is, in a way forcing yourself on someone without their permission