New beginning. Dating thread 41

[lubeybooby]

Dating chit chat here :)

I am thinking it might be time to get off the sofa....

48 I meant to say something to you earlier. You're someone here that is very much on my wavelength, I relate to a lot of your posts. You've had a shit day matey

I have had a trawl on POF nowt there.....and the days of being apparently voted one of the most 'popular' women on OKC are long gone....Guardian S ....nowt. What to do???

He is currently in the palm of my pocket.

No, don't know if he has fibro. Very rudimentary internet research might suggest a higher instance of fibro alongside ME/CFS, we haven't discussed it. Yet.

Friday [INT. EVENING]

Me: hey. How you doin? Do you have fibro?
Nameless. Hey. No.
Me: excellent news, didn't want to break you. By the way, I have genital herpes.

Snape I am helpless laughing at that post. Just imagining that exact script and music. Oh god

I thought it was 'boom chicka wah wah' these days Snape?

Hahahaa!!!

Oh bant... Your knowledge of modern day pornography is obviously far better than mine.

Anyway... I suggested we have the sex talk, which isn't romantic, or passionate or owt, but I pocket-palmed him by saying, 'I would never want to be less than honest, or mean or self serving' so thunderbirds are go.

Apparently I now 'rock'. I think that's what the young folk say when they want to fist you.

I better be getting some on Friday. I might even buy prophylactics. something I never do as I tend to regard it as a personal preference...

I reckon he would have mentioned it though Snape because fibro can be very severe in some cases...I have worked with people who are virtually bed ridden with it.

So Snape let me get this right, you said....'I want to talk to you about sex on Friday' and he said 'you rock'. Or have you had the 'chat'

I said,' let's talk about sex (bay-bee) on Friday'

He said I rock.

The chat is yet to come

Nah, don't think fibro. I have a friend with ME/CFS who has fibro... Don't think it's likely, but if there's a possibility, I would like to know how to work with it,.,

ike - so the OD scene in South Wales about as shite as in Gloucestershire then? I've always felt it depends hugely where you live as to how successful OD is. They say dating is a numbers game. If so, then OD is the post code lottery. I also have a friend who has Reynauds but but she's never had black fingers or toes.

Fair dos. It's good to rock! I reckon it'll be alright you know.

Yeah South Wales...I know most of the vaguely eligible guys around my age who I would be interested in. That sounds odd as it encapsulates a capital city but it is really a large village.

I had one or two breaks when I was seeing TR and could have gone on dates with several of his acquaintances through dating sites but did not because I felt it would not have been fair to him. Yes my friend was quite shaken up ...is going to docs tomoz.

Love this Voice: "They say dating is a numbers game. If so, then OD is the post code lottery" I may nick it for the dreaded sub heading.

Hi Everyone!

I'm always amazed at how fast this thread moves!

Snape - my knowledge of the boom chicka wah wah I think came from a Lynx advert?

But I am up-to-speed with things enough to know that young people might fist-bump you. Fisting you is a very different thing indeed.

As it was when TR introduced me to his friends I knew several already...one had taken the photos for my wedding beause he was very close to my exH and I at the time but for various reasons we had lost touch.

Stranger feel free to nick it without need for payment of copyright. I don't know where that popped out from. I'm not usually so erudite and witty this time of the day.

ike - my friend with Reynauds doesn't seem to 'suffer' much beyond occasionally cold extremeties. Hopefully your chum will be fine also.

Bant - Lynx advert. Yeah, sure it does.

Having dipped my toe back into POF the other day, I took a glance at OKC earlier this evening. Nope, nowt doing there either. All the decent catches are hiding, it seems (hiding away from Thursday perhaps).

Hmmm Thursday...

I think I have Raynauds. Have crap circulation especially in fingers though. They mostly go white although sometimes slightly blue. I do lots of glove wearing :)

I've got my DC on thursday. I will make beans on toast for tea for all of us, in the shape of a heart, then put them to bed and not do OD.

Also, I sign the divorce papers in the afternoon. How romantic.

I fear it might be linked to something else maybe thyroidism...no use speculating...doc will do the tests..

Miranda - I've always been fine with cold and hopeless in heat. But this winter my feet have been like blocks of ice all the time, often wearing two pairs of socks and still freezing. Think my thermostat needs checking out.