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New beginning. Dating thread 41

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lubeybooby · 11/02/2013 23:22

Dating chit chat here :)

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chuchiface · 15/02/2013 00:57

I gathered that, just stalked ex, he's just looking for friends, yes I know I must stop looking... good luck with the memory stick - any handbags with zippy pockets?

JulietteMontague · 15/02/2013 01:07

Kevin Webster has been charged with 19 counts child abuse and rape.

mercury7 · 15/02/2013 01:08

'.it is a song title from the '70's '
well that sure narrows it down for us Confused Hmm
:o

JulietteMontague · 15/02/2013 01:12

Sorry I just blurted that out Blush

ike1 · 15/02/2013 01:15

Jeez just googled that...efs sakes...

ike1 · 15/02/2013 01:16

Yeah Merc didn't want to give too much away there did I? Ha aha

chuchiface · 15/02/2013 01:17

I was going to suggest Whip it by Devo but apparently that was 1980...

ike1 · 15/02/2013 01:18

Oh this guy was obviously on one ....pain would not be my first thought

MirandaWest · 15/02/2013 08:23

Morning :) Was up much too late last night getting stuff ready for Going Away (and also tidying as XH will be coming here after school when he gets the DC.

Am a little bit excited :)

OhWesternWind · 15/02/2013 08:41

A little bit, Miranda? Hope you have a wonderful weekend away.

48howdidthathappen · 15/02/2013 09:07

Have a wonderful weekend Miranda

I am looking forward to a man free weekend Shock

OhWesternWind · 15/02/2013 09:39

No response to pants text . . .

No response to Cheese of Lurve . . .

Maybe he's still at his mum's.

Sad
Snapespeare · 15/02/2013 09:56

fingers crossed for nomore today. breathe!

have a lovely weekend miranda

oww you will be fine. [cheese

OhWesternWind · 15/02/2013 09:59

Snape all sounds wonderful. Really, really happy for you. Have a brilliant time!

Flipper924 · 15/02/2013 10:02

OWW, relax. LM hasn't let you down before, so why would he start now? I am, however, wondering if the card was from someone else, and you have sent LM a very confusing pic of your pants!

Enjoy your weekend, Miranda.

Happy Friday, everyone! I've got a day off today, so will be mostly doing nothing Smile

48howdidthathappen · 15/02/2013 10:04

Sounds brilliant Snape Have a fab time Smile

OWW The lack of communication is tough, honestly I would be tempted to pull him up on it.

EternalRose · 15/02/2013 10:05

Hmmm feeling a bit down this morning.

Had a lovely valentines day, but decided to snoop and I found things. He had his laptop open, and I noticed on his browser history he had been on Make Friends Online which funnily enough is where I met him 5 years ago...

I clicked onto the pages and it bought up his profile, not subscribed member or anything and all the messages in the inbox were 'flirts' or 'winks' from women that he had read. Although one he had replied too...probably with a 'wink' back of some sort. I tried to click on the outbox but apparently you need to be a paid member to see your own outbox...

I confronted him straight away, to which I got a reply of "So? I am not a paid member, it means nothing'.

Rightttttttt ok. He slept on the sofa last night and I still have not got an apology. Not the first time this has happened.

There goes the self esteem just a little.

MirandaWest · 15/02/2013 10:05

Am sort of packing. This means painting my toenails and Mumsnetting Hmm

OhWesternWind · 15/02/2013 10:08

Ha Flipper it would be lovely to have a secret admirer! But he signed it so I know it's him!

48 I'm really tempted to say something (what??) but think I should maybe wait a little while as this is a difficult time. Dunno.

48howdidthathappen · 15/02/2013 10:14

OWW I know this is a difficult time for LM. He may be doing what I do, shutting everyone out. It is does make things difficult for both sides though.

Maybe wait until you see him face to face.

OhWesternWind · 15/02/2013 10:15

Oh Rose so sorry. Going into meeting, will reply properly soon. (((Hugs)))

48howdidthathappen · 15/02/2013 10:28

I am sorry Rose That is not acceptable behaviour.

Honestly don't know what I would do. Well probably dump!

EternalRose · 15/02/2013 10:34

Thank you for the hugs, I really need it. For some reason I really don't have the energy to argue with him about it.

VoiceofUnreason · 15/02/2013 10:38

Trouble is, Rose, if you don't argue with him about it (or, I should say, discuss it in a reasonable and calm manner, expressing how you do not feel this is at all acceptable and is, in fact, disrespecting you and your relationship) it gives him carte blanche to carry on. Foot down with firm hand. No doormatting, please.

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lubeybooby · 15/02/2013 10:43

EternalRose, what Voice said.

Please start a thread in relationships about this, so that you can get the proper back up you need. [hug]

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