it's a new dawn, it's a new day ..........it dating thread 36!

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Ahhh 48 it's great when it's like that :o enjoy!

I am envious 48! I find mutual humour very sexy. Myself and Torso Rubber shared humour and alot of youthful memories.....we used to hang out in the same clubs when younger...infact I remembered him from those times which is why I did not want to throw away the connection just because we could not sustain an intimate relationship.

why couldnt you?

sorry, i must have missed that bit?

Chilli boy and i have been doing some texting. I do like him. Hes funny and seems very much like me. Its exciting.

Well TR wanted kids and I dont want any more. He was made unemployed very early in our relationship and I was only 8 months out of the devastation from the end of my 16 year marriage. I guess we were both pretty vulnerable and 'needy' in many ways.

This led to some very 'hot' arguments. Plus his defence mechanism was arrogance which got on my tits. Also both stubborn characters which led me to call off the relationship many times. It was becoming ridiculous....so we needed a 'cooling off' period. But I have come to realise that I was 'cutting my nose off' cos I enjoy his company.

We will see if an occasional film buddy thing will work in the long run.

Very similar story then Ike Big bonus for me is the sex If we are both/either of us very tired though we have on the odd occasion waited until morning for a bit of fun Happy just having a good snog and laugh. Long may it continue.

Thats great about Chilli boy btw Snail....I also think that it was too early to try to get into a long term situation and now want to 'see what is out there' ....not much so far...

ah, so sort of right person, wrong time, type thing.
I understand that.

See the other thing with TR is that sex was good but ...ahem ...he was gifted in the 'girthful cock' area which led to some awful, awful cystitis...hence that kind of fell apart too..

Yeah very much 'sort of' actually I need a fairly gentle character as a partner ...but then I might end up dominating him so hard to say really...

Oh with you on the girthful cock front thing. I asked Mr R&R the cock size question as soon as I knew I wanted to bed him. He was a little shocked I think, but answered honestly

I am a strictly average type

Yeah cystitis is the absolute bain of my life and quite frankly one of the reasons why a regular sex life can be quite fraught for me because while I do enjoy it ...the 'pain' is sometime not worth the 'pleasure' iyswim...hence the iron clad knick-knacks (what am I like eh??? lol)

I forgot to ask Mr FU. Was very happy to see that 6ft3 with large hands didn't have any bearing on the size of his cock. I did tell him I was relieved when I saw it

So just realised, not only do they need to have a compatible sense of humour, they need to not want kids, be available, be kind, wear the right clothes and also have the right cock size.....I am dooooooooomed......

Oh I remember when I first saw TR's appendage he was wearing a bright red Thai made condom that was slightly too small ....I nearly backed out of the door...we still laugh about it now...

I am laughing at the image now

Oh I know...hahaha

Any one got a shoe horn?

ike that's a shame that keeps happening but I have some advice- I'm about to get awfully personal so I'll PM you :o

Oh no Ike, I recently got cystitis. I was hoping it was a one-off but from what you're saying it sounds like it could be a regular thing?

Oh ok Lubes

He is a character that one all right ...bloody hell some of his 'adventures'..well best left until another day... Libby...I dont know if it is just me I have always suffered.

lubey just seen your post - if you could PM me as well with advice that would be great (but no worries if it's too personal and you don't want to).

No worries Libby - used to happen to me a lot but I've sorted it now... advice on way very soon!

Ike, I've never suffered before (and I'm in my 40s) but first time with Mr C, and it happened. Makes me a bit wary of doing it again.

Could I have a reality check on this. I think Mr Vague has 'all about him' tendencies, he seems to show very little caring. Today's example, text convo. I told him I was cold and wet from the sleet, on the way to taking my car into the garage to get checked the brakes failed. His reply didn't even reference it, just gave told me what he was doing at work (like,given my circumstances right then, I give a shit) .

Now I would expect more consideration.