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I've packed up his stuff! Last straw! Short!

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tzella · 02/01/2013 11:51

The absolute last straw* is that, since being paid plus getting £600 bonus on 24/12, I have £75 left in my account! The cocklodging bastard is GONE TODAY. I'm going to meet him at station and hand over stuff then meet my best friend (who I am not allowed to see!) for £74.99 worth of booze and slagging him off.

What the actual fuck have I been doing?? 2013 starts here Smile

  • so so so many last staws Angry including 'peeling potatoes is boring' on Xmas day!! I spent boxing day writing a variation on this post in my head. Plus, for full disclosure, I took him back after he whacked me Sad Utter madness Confused
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LizaTarbucksAuntie · 02/01/2013 17:43

Good riddance to him.
Good things to you x

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tzella · 02/01/2013 17:46

He's from the kind of culture where it was expected and accepted that he picked his sister's husband. Yes, I know Biscuit That info probably makes this less easy to relate to but, fuck it. I am positively giddy here Smile

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caramelwaffle · 02/01/2013 17:51

tzella You have made the right decision. I'm not a million miles away Wink and sending positive vibes for tonight. The info. is easy for me to relate to Wink. Enjoy your evening out x

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nilbyname · 02/01/2013 17:51

Good luck, and lots of courage. Make sure your best mate is near by to help whisk you away from him if needs be.

I would be tempted to play as loudly as I could that TAylor Swift song at home whilst lobbing tesco bags of his stuff at him, smiling away!

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cozietoesie · 02/01/2013 18:10

Well done!

You might see if you can get someone to hang around in the background just in case - although with such a busy station you should be fine if you can't.

Smile

Let us know how it goes.

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ClippedPhoenix · 02/01/2013 18:14

Good for you, just stick to it. Sever all ties and delete all numbers etc. from everywhere.

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tzella · 02/01/2013 18:17

I'm on the tube now Grin Live action dumping of great justice? Xmas Grin

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biff23 · 02/01/2013 18:20

Good luck,enjoy your night and be strong! Wish more women had balls like you, why put up with all that crap.

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StuffezLaBouche · 02/01/2013 18:21

Really wish I was there to see it. Good luck!

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izzyizin · 02/01/2013 18:22

Can we have his patented face on webcam? Grin

Does this mean I'll never have to peer down my specs at you again? Hmm

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Earthymama · 02/01/2013 18:23

Good luck Grin

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poorbuthappy · 02/01/2013 18:26

Good luck love.
Take care please x

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Ahhhcrap · 02/01/2013 18:27

Good luck

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chocolatespiders · 02/01/2013 18:30

Woohoo go OP... wishing lots of happiness for 2013 Smile

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GiveMeSomeSpace · 02/01/2013 18:38

Your brother!!??!! I've heard it all now. Unbelievable.

Well done OP. Hope it goes to plan Smile

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Strangemagic · 02/01/2013 18:43

Cheering you on.....Good luck,hope everything goes well.Smile

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 02/01/2013 18:43

Well done, op

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tzella · 02/01/2013 18:53

Well. That was an anti-climax, sorry! I was early and he texted to say he was waiting in our FAVOURITE PUB. So I had to carry his stinking bag full of (my) clean socks two minutes further up the road. He was in the garden so I placed the bag on the bench and... left. Did think I might say "It is about the money, honey" but didn't bother. He's never going to change. I've sat in my own house in the cold because he wouldn't contribute to heating bills and I'd rather wear two jumpers than give him the pleasure of sitting about in nothing but his boxers at my expense. That was another straw, as you can imagine. 

I'm on another tube now. Going to be early for a much better date Smile 

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Autumnchill · 02/01/2013 18:55

Another one cheering you on Smile

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dawntigga · 02/01/2013 18:57

Yay.

AnotherCocklodgerBitesTheDustTiggaxx

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RandomMess · 02/01/2013 18:57

Have a great night tonight Grin

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AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 02/01/2013 18:58

A bit of a non event is better than angry scenes.

Just move on now and enjoy your evening

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kinkyfuckery · 02/01/2013 18:58

Sorry it wasn't quite what you'd worked up to. Have fun with your friend tonight, but be careful how much you drink and please look after yourself. Can you stay with your friend tonight, or bring her back with you so you're not going to be coming home alone?

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twinklesparkles · 02/01/2013 18:59

Wait.. Did he not see you? Did you just chuck his stuff on a bench? Lol!!!

What he say? Look gutted?

Have a great night, well done :)

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JugglingMeYorkiesAndNutRoast · 02/01/2013 18:59

Hey, anti-climax is good !

Well done to you, and Happy New Year 2013 Xmas Smile

Have a great evening with your friend !

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