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Bacon sarnies in suspenders, jacket strokers, coffee with a small 'c' and LOTS of Coffee with a capital 'C' it's dating thread 32

999 replies

lulubellaboozle · 16/12/2012 14:29

Thought I take the liberty of starting us off again ...

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Scattylatte · 19/12/2012 08:05

fayster that meh feeling is something I got with the fireman. On paper and in the flesh very nice but I just didn't feel anything other than nice.

I feel meh moreso these days.

ike1 · 19/12/2012 08:34

I know exactly what you mean about that meh feeling being more often these days...

VelvetSpoon · 19/12/2012 08:42

I'm definitely not going to meet the just out for sex one. I do want more than that.

Cuthbert has beem in touch, he has the cold/flu thing that is doing the rounds but hopes to be better soon and to see me before Xmas Grin.

Scatty/Fayster the meh feeling is a tricky one - I think there's so much else going on at this time of year, lus the weather being cold and miserable, it can be quite hard to work up any enthusiasm for dating. See how you feel about these men once Christmas is out of the way...if its still a bit meh then, you may have your answer.

OhLittleTownofWesternWind · 19/12/2012 08:49

So very pleased to hear that, Velvet (nicer than Spoon I think, but which do you prefer?). Fingers crossed he'll be recovered enough to see you soon and give you a Christmas kiss . . . I'd delete the other one's number tbh, seeing as things look like they're coming good with Cuthbert. Really happy for you.

48howdidthathappen · 19/12/2012 09:04

Shall we have a vote?

1 for Velvet. Just lovely Smile

Yogagirl17 · 19/12/2012 09:15

I have to share David Tenant? Sad

48howdidthathappen · 19/12/2012 09:55

whispers Mr R&R reminds me of David Tenant.

yoga The original is all yours Smile

mercury7 · 19/12/2012 10:43

or VS
or Vel ? :)
I'm also very 'meh' about dating,but we are in the depths of winter, once past dec 21st i might feel a bit more up for it :o

Yogagirl17 · 19/12/2012 11:16

Then again we might not make it past 21st of Dec so maybe we should all get in a bit of Coffee while we can! Grin

mercury7 · 19/12/2012 11:29

no time for Coffee!
I'm too busy chanting to raise the vibration of the earth energy body in order to save us all from certain death!!

lulubellaboozle · 19/12/2012 12:00

I've been waiting 10 days to see Mr ex Army what with work and kids and my Coffee cup is going to well and truly overflowing tonight. I will be taking no excuses or prisoners! I'll be crouched and ready to pounce Xmas Grin poor guy doesn't know what's going to hit him!!

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48howdidthathappen · 19/12/2012 12:47

I am 'engaging' tonight with Mr R&R. Not risking any Coffee jinx.
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=engaging%20in%20sexual%20behavior

Poppysquad · 19/12/2012 12:52

Thank you Mercury if the world doesn't end it will all be down to your efforts and we will all be eternally grateful.

Looooong telephone conversation with Sugar Daddy last night, all sorts of info on his backgorund, views on life, the universe and everything. He is so easy to get along with. I hope to pop in and see him tomorrow evening on my way home from work (he lives between home and work = handy!). I do like him Fayster you're right and in some ways don't want to spoil things either. I have been warning him, nicely, that there are no guarantees, but at the same time making it clear that I do think a lot of him.

Desperately trying not to text him today - I don't want to make the same mistakes as I did with Half Italian Stallion, trying to keep my cool. I've told him that I'd call him tonight though.
He is talking about taking me out for my birthday at the beginning of January, so this relationship has long term prospects - well a whole two weeks anyway.

Finally (purging myself here), I have sent Boring Engineer a kind text saying thanks but no thanks. Phew.

MirandaWest · 19/12/2012 13:17

If the world did end on Friday would it end everywhere at once or would it be staggered? I mean will Australia go first and we all stop at midnight our own time?

mercury7 · 19/12/2012 13:18

he he..no probs, dont mention it, just doing my bit for human kind:o

ike1 · 19/12/2012 13:29

Oh well ...if it ends it ends...(complacent shrug)...

SevenSnapespearesSwimming · 19/12/2012 14:10

woohoo! got a call from Laithwaites - i've won a case of wine and they'll deliver it on friday! :) annnnnnnd my lovely old tattooist sent me a christmas hamper. what a lovely thing to do! :)

annnd theres a hot guy on OKC and he lives where i live...and he keeps looking at my profile (shall not contact. shall not contact)

OhLittleTownofWesternWind · 19/12/2012 14:43

Why not, Snape? Today is obviously well-omened so go for it!

BantaBaby · 19/12/2012 15:08

I agree Snape. You've got the hamper, the wine - good things come in threes

Wickaninnish · 19/12/2012 15:10

At last snape your luck has turned.

Contact hot guy, he might even make it a Christmas to remember !!

SevenSnapespearesSwimming · 19/12/2012 15:27

hot guy hasn't filled out his profile, he is merely hot. he may be hot and 'i iz well up 4 fun'

i'd rather buy a euro lottery ticket. :)

OhLittleTownofWesternWind · 19/12/2012 15:34

Well, if he's a sexi babez then all you need to do is block . . .

SevenSnapespearesSwimming · 19/12/2012 15:35

well yes, but then i've spent valuable time perving looking and he only has one photo and he might not be that hot... so i shall wait.

48howdidthathappen · 19/12/2012 16:12

Snape You are on the up Grin

Mercury VERY good vibes for world saving!

poppy He has been sent to help heal your wounds. Enjoy it Smile

ike1 · 19/12/2012 16:33

Yep 2013 will be YOUR year Snape..