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Men who don't watch porn

999 replies

FBworry · 10/12/2012 19:40

I do not believe all men watch porn.

However I wonder why they dont with it now being the "norm"?

Was there never any interest in the first place? Has it lost its shine? Is it a for feminist reasons?

Or is it more of a case of resisting temptation? As in they do want to watch but guilt and/or morals stop them? Fear of being caught?

We live in a time when we are constantly fed the message all men watch porn so nobody ever discusses those that don't watch it.

OP posts:
FBworry · 12/12/2012 19:50

Andula

Your back. I was just wondering why is it so important to you to make us believe our dps are liars? Why are you so keen on reinforcing this point?

Do you have a dp? Do they watch porn?

OP posts:
BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 19:52

and if andula's back I really am going.

FBworry · 12/12/2012 19:53

Dont go :(

I really would like to know why andula is so persistent with this "message"

OP posts:
ClaireBuckler · 12/12/2012 19:54

Sorry, I thought I could have a debate about this, but being told to fuck off has made me wonder what I am doing on an internet forum board. Oh and masterchef is about to start.

Andula · 12/12/2012 19:55

I don't care if your husband's lying to you tbh, and if you read my posts you'll see I've always said I think 'most' men watch porn and 'some' of those men have to lie about it.

Yes I have a partner and he likes porn, we occasionally watch it together. He agrees that most men watch it.

MrsWolowitz · 12/12/2012 19:56

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TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 12/12/2012 19:59

Shoes if you ask someone using their own name on twitter if they like their job, they're going to say yes, aren't they, whatever their job is, on grounds that it's a public forum that their boss/employer/producer can read?

Andula · 12/12/2012 20:00

Mwahaha.....the power

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 20:05

I don't know, I don't presume to know what someone is thinking just because i don't agree with what they do.

What I've learnt from this thread is that women who do something other women don't like haven't got a mind of their own, even if they think they're not being exploited, they are, presumably because they're too stupid to realise.

You ladies don't half treat other women like idiots. How very odd.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 20:06

sorry to break the illusion, I just cant be bothered to talk to you anymore. thats not a victory.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 20:07

poster Shoesme Wed 12-Dec-12 20:05:58
I don't know, I don't presume to know what someone is thinking just because i don't agree with what they do.

yes you do. you have stated several times that our husbands must be lying to us and having "danger wanks"

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 20:08

and you clearly dont understand the nature of abuse and exploitation. nothing to do with intelligence, everything to do with fear and insecurity.

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 20:11

IMO men lie about watching porn and i'm not surprised judging by the screaming banshees on here when people have a different opinion on porn.

Telling someone to fuck off because they had a different, educated opinion. Sheesh.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 20:13

IMO women who make porn are being abused and exploited. at least my opinion has statistics to back it up...

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 20:13

You need to stop presuming these women are idiots, it's all very odd. Do you have a problem with women?

OliviaPeaceOnMumsnet · 12/12/2012 20:13

Evening all

Xmas Grin
Andula · 12/12/2012 20:16

Blame - haha, I knew you'd be back x

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 20:16

How is Kristina Rose being abused and exploited? She seems to love what she does, I'll take her word for it because she does have her own mind and i would never dream of telling a woman how she is feeling.

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 20:17

reread, I dont think they are idiots. where have I said that? in fact I said "BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels Wed 12-Dec-12 20:08:27
and you clearly dont understand the nature of abuse and exploitation. nothing to do with intelligence, everything to do with fear and insecurity." and of course I dont hate/dislike women. I dislike people who support the sex trade. I feel sorry for the people working in it.

Olivia, I am trying to be good, 'onest.

in fact, I really am hiding this now. my posts are being misread and the links that I found on request have been dismissed.

AnyFuckerForAMincePie · 12/12/2012 20:18

This thread is a disgrace

there are some true abusers on this thread

and some ignorant goaders

and it's getting difficult to tell the difference

if this is debating, count me right out

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BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 20:18

She seems to love what she does, I'll take her word for it because she does have her own mind and i would never dream of telling a woman how she is feeling

women fake orgasms. I know its a shock, but its true.

and as for the second part, you are perfectly happy to speak for all other men!

BlameItOnTheChoirOfAngels · 12/12/2012 20:19

and on that note, see ya. glad I'm not your wife.

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 20:21

So you think she is faking being happy? From her Twitter she seems to have a happy, fulfilled, interesting life. How very dare she!

Shoesme · 12/12/2012 20:22

Maybe, just maybe people are different and don't all fit into one category? Crazy i know.

TheDoctrineOfSnatch · 12/12/2012 20:23

I have no idea if the particular person you mention is happy. Twitter is a PR t