DH and I agreed to do role play - I did mine now he's refusing

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This is so typical of him, gets what he wants and then refuses to do his part. We've been having problems, things getting a bit stale so to spice things up we agreed to try a little role play. I said I'd go first and he asked me to dress up as a sexy nurse. Pretty easy since I am actually a nurse so I just adjusted my uniform slightly and played out a silly nurse/patient scenario. It was successful and we had a good time. However now that it's his turn he's refusing to do it. I have asked him to dress up as a character from Star Wars (pretty normal cliche stuff!) and he's saying he doesn't think it's working - now that he's had what he wanted. Is this normal for role playing that one person stops once they've had what they wanted?

Hagrid? Seriously? Hagrid?

If it really is Chewbacca (which I doubt!) then I would refuse too. Your turn involved wearing something you wear everyday and hoisting it up a bit whereas his is just ridiculous.

You kind of go for hairy chaps don't you.

At least it's not Jabba the hut.

DH would probably jump at the chance to dress up as Boba Fett.

What's with all the faces at Chewbacca?

no actually I'd do Hagrid.

'this is not a game of who the fuck are you'

A policeman or hagrid!
Not much difference then!!!

Hagrid?

I would be seizing that truncheon faster than you could say this is going to require some hard core anti-perspirant if I was him.

Were you going to be Han Solo with a strap-on?? Because he and Chewy clearly have a thing going on.

See OP, this is one of life's situations where you say "you go first". Live and learn you will.

Chewwy I am in love with this picture. If that makes me weird, so be it!

Well, if he's not comfortable, he's not comfortable... Chewbacca?

Try the policeman one instead, it's a bit less, er, unusual. If he won't do any of it, then he's a bit of a git.

And pity the poor fucker that rents the Chewy suit next.

I'm sorry. You are asking him to become sufficiently aroused while pretending to be Hagrid or Chewbacca? If we all tried this tonight and reported back I think we would be reporting near universal failure.

This is not equivalent to his asking you to be a sexy nurse

that makes you weird.

I want to know where you get the costume from and whether it allows ahem anatomical functions without removing it.

The people in my household want to know what I'm finding so funny on the internet! Your not weird, but thank you for sharing. :-)

Would your DHs not do this either then?

Categorically not. Maybe Yoda...

I am tempted to ask DP this later, just to see if he would.

I so knew that this was going to be one to watch.

My DH says no he would not but he has a friend who looks VERY like Chewbacca who is not picky (in the circs he can't afford to be) - I can put you in touch?