Very Nosey BJ QuestIon!

[NoseyNosey]

Yes I've name changed - come on I had to!

So the question is - how often do you give your DP a BJ? This is following on from a conversation with DH last night. I had just given him one and to summarise, he basically said "that was amazing, shame you don't do it more often though".

Admittedly we sometimes go weeks without me going 'there'. I don't dislike it, but it's not top of my 'sex list' IYSWIM. So when I'm going through a knackered phase and we finally get around to a bit of rumpy, I would quite often rather go for the 'standard' shag rather than faff about (god that makes me sound old and dull, I know!). But then we'll have more 'up' times when a BJ is every week or two. But it's never really part of every session. BTW DH is very willing the other way round and definitely does it to me more often than I do to him, so I suppose that's why I maybe feel a bit guilty about his remark...

So can we all leave our blushes at the door and compare notes please?

Happiest I do hope you don't work at a call centre. I imagine the constrains of satisfying dh must have put the clampers on your career somewhat. Or have you perfected a telephone blow job voice?

I hate giving them, which causes tension as dp can't grasp why

He gives oral because he likes it... tbh I could take it or leave it most of the time but saying that would just cause more issues so...

2 or 3 times a week, maybe. Probably about half the number of times we have sex. As foreplay.

I quite often just give him one 'just because', for no other reason and not expecting any kind of reciprocation. I love it, he loves it, we're both happy

@Toby- you have sex 6 times a week! Where do you get the energy from?

Bloody hell, we're lucky if we manage once or twice. I probably go down on him 2out of 3 times we do it tho'.

Probably between 4 and 6 most weeks, yes. I've never really thought about where I get the energy from, tbh! Early-ish nights with a ridiculously hot boyfriend seems to do the trick

Now you're just showing off

Ha! I am maybe a little smug

I love giving blow jobs but my DP is a bit too big to do it for very long at a time since normally my jaw starts hurting after a minute or two. I tend to include it 2-3 or three times if I'm giving him a proper hand job and both of my arms need a rest. I'll sometimes give him a bit of suck as part of foreplay too. So probably 3-4 times a week as part of a hand job and another 2-3 times as part of foreplay.

A fair bit. though it depends on mood.

we will have spells of having a lot of sex and during that period he might get one almost daily.

then others he will go a whole week without.

just depends.

ahh yes thats a point, are we taling as a stand along sex act? ie until "completion" or just as a bit of foreplay?

he usualy gets a bit of foreplay most days.

Loving how the longer this goes on the longer the blow jobs are, come to think of it I reckon I must give at least a thousand a week, hahahaha

If we're talking about until completion then mine's only had one!

I am shocked and stunned at you lot.

Me, about once every 6-12 months. Not much, but 4 times a week just seems ridiculous! I'm sure I don't know anyone who has sex that much. (Not anyone over the age of 19, anyway!)

Literally, blown away by the amount you guys devote to fellatio! Lucky DPs! And do they return the favour as often? My DH is even less.

OP you need to be clearer what you mean..

• do you mean just dong-in-mouth for a bit?
• or do you mean taking it all the way?

(often and seldom, since you're asking)

I do it as foreplay every time unless we're just fitting in a "quickie".

I've found if I make it last but don't let him finish it kind of deadens his glans which helps him last longer when we get going properly.

Sorry if that's TMI.

OP i'll make you feel better, i have been with DH for 6.5yrs and he's had about 4 in that time total.
i hate it, and avoid at all costs, i don't expect him to go down either though as again hate that also.

Twice yesterday.

Tonight as well, if he plays his cards right.

Still haven't swallowed yet though

I do it as foreplay most times we have sex ie unless it's not a quicky.

On it's own until finish, maybe once a week.

DH returns the favour willingly. :)

No, I don't work in a call centre!! Okay for example we often have bets and if I lose it results in a 45 minute blowjob. I like it, he likes it, win all round. In fact I'm going to leave my office now and go home and get down to it.

I'm filmed at my cousin's wedding slurring saying 'A blowjob a day keeps the divorce lawyers away'. The shame.

stubborn good use of 'dong'

back in the day, when we were actually getting some - every time. a bit, or a lot, it varied. but at least a little every time.

I suppose that would be considered boring, routine.

most times

Once every couple of weeks(to completion). I love doing it and often offer my dh one if he says he too tired for full sex.Not that keen on receiving(not dh fault as tried it with other partners).
Tbh I have a much higher sex drive and would do it more often if had the chance!.

I am stunned at happiest giving 45 minute bjs.

45 minutes and he doesn't come?