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How do you feel about prostitution?

1002 replies

BillieH · 10/11/2010 13:01

Hello everyone, I have name changed for this(no sinister reason) but i do post on here from time to time.

Anyway, I would love to know what your thoughts are on prostitution. I don't mean political views and I dont really want to get into a discussion on whether girls are trafficked, pimped, druggies. Just what you think as a whole.

I am talking about girls who willing become escorts or work in massage parlours under the guise of 'masseuses' when really they provide extras.

What do you think of men who see them? Are that losers, sad and lonely, 'sex addicts'or what? Would you think your dp/dh was cheating if he saw a prostitute.

I ask just out of curiosity, I do not think my dp has ever visited a prostitute! Also, apparently 1 in 10 men see prostitutes. Do you agree with this. If this is true what hope do we all have eh?

My take is that i belive some girls use their looks to earn money an 'easy' way. By easy, I mean that they do not have to train for yrs to get a decent paid job, or they do not have to work 9 to 5 in an office when they can earn a wks wages in a day.

I have asked my own dp and he beleives that there is something missing from a relationship if a man sees a prostitute.Obviously its different with a single man. He also thinks that some men have issues sexually with their wives/partners and are inhibited. Therefore, that is why they pay for sex acts that they can't ask for at home. These are exactly my thoughts.Anyone agree or disagree?

I'd like your thoughts or experiences!

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BillieH · 10/11/2010 23:11

Shirley your posts are bang on.

I neither have a problems with prostitutes, but I do have a problem with is them telling the likes of me that I don't really know what my dp gets up to.

The blue balls comment- didn't you know men NEED sex or they will die or something?Wink

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OFFS · 10/11/2010 23:12

Billie, please don't personalise it. No-one said your man sees us; just that men very like yours do.

TheOleDragon · 10/11/2010 23:13

How did you know my son is called John? (I am serious, he really is). I called him Johnnie the Fetus, because it reminded me of what I should have used, and when he was born it stuck. (it was also useful with nursery rhymes, because most of the kids in them are called 'Johnnie or John'.

ShirleyKnot · 10/11/2010 23:14

You're quite right AF.

Did you see my brilliant picture I posted earlier?

This is quite the shocker

look

OFFS · 10/11/2010 23:15

Photoshopped. I reckon.

BillieH · 10/11/2010 23:15

Yeah oledragon, one day my dp will be an old man, although he won't be ugly cos that would mean he would have to be ugly now. When you age you don't get ugly you get older.It won't matter anyway as i will be older too. It won't be a young woman touching him though will it.

And is it really worth all your self respect to wank a bloke off for £40 . I mean we are hardly talking big bucks here are we.

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AnyFucker · 10/11/2010 23:16

oh, that's nothing, shirls

you should see the one of my DH being taken from behind by a Yorkshire terrier

it's quite summink

happy days

OFFS · 10/11/2010 23:16

Those of us who choose this way of life don't lose our self-respect. Hmm

SabrinaYork · 10/11/2010 23:17

Oh he did for years Lindilala/BillieH a man can only take so much rejection before it eats away at his self worth.

Nice to see what you really think Lindi/Billie I thought in your eyes if a married man was not getting any at home he had a free pass from you?

S x

Mandamumu · 10/11/2010 23:18

My self respect is also intact and I do a lot more than massage and hand relief.

ShirleyKnot · 10/11/2010 23:19

<a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=1funny.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/squirrel-photo-bomb.jpg&imgrefurl=1funny.com/squirrel-photo-bomb/&h=460&w=700&sz=37&tbnid=1tKfjArarkLsxM:&tbnh=92&tbnw=140&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dsquirrel%2Bphotobomb&zoom=1&q=squirrel+photobomb&hl=en&usg=__6OI_Vl8G3ehcULT2Pi4ISj10Vv4=&sa=X&ei=KijbTImqIomLhQe47JXQAg&ved=0CBYQ9QEwAA" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">This One

See, the funny thing about this is that you can tell it's real, because the couple are laughing in the background. Apparantly the squirrel was curious about the noise the camera was making and popped up to have a look just as the shot was taken.

DISENGAGE DISENGAGE

Mandamumu · 10/11/2010 23:21

Sigh.

Every time.

AnyFucker · 10/11/2010 23:23

now you just cannot beat a meerkat

ShirleyKnot · 10/11/2010 23:24

Loving this one at the moment

I HEART Nature

BillieH · 10/11/2010 23:24

I'm sorry OFFS but how can you say a man like mine uses prostitutes. You don't know him. If you mean an ordinary man, well then he ain't no ordinary man.

I'd also like to know why we have to look after our men? Do they not have to look after us. Maybe they are all fretting while we are out at work in case we are really shagging.

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ShirleyKnot · 10/11/2010 23:25

arf

OFFS · 10/11/2010 23:26

Billie, men who see us are perfectly ordinary men. Why won't you believe us?

TheOleDragon · 10/11/2010 23:26

Billie, ever heard of the saying 'One Man's Meat is another Man's Poison'? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I have no idea how young or old the woman will be who is touching him. You seem to spend alot of time online for a happily married woman. If your not careful and spend to much tapping away, he will miss all of your good years.

It sure is worth my time to wank a bloke off for £40 otherwise I wouldn't do it. I wank 4 men off a day, 3 days a week. That adds up to £480 just on respectable wanks a week. Plus if you add the £360 I make from the massage that goes with it, we are talking £840 for 12 hours work... I'd say that enough bucks and my self respect is always still tact at the end of it.

ShirleyKnot · 10/11/2010 23:27

er BillieH if you're not here to stir the shit then just leave it yeah?

IT AIN'T WORF IT.

We'll never agree - tis like FF/BF, WOHM/SAHM etceterah etceterah.

It's a good little topic to get everyone riled. Ignore it

We're doing GHOST PICTURES NOW.

Best GHOST PIC....GO

AnyFucker · 10/11/2010 23:28

who woulda thunk giraffes could be funny

TheOleDragon · 10/11/2010 23:28

Oh AF welcome back to the thread, so good to see you join us again Smile x

BillieH · 10/11/2010 23:29

Ah the poor bloke with his 'unloving' wife stripping him of his self worth. Bless. She should be tending to his every manly need.

What is a sufficient amount of sex to satisfy these sex Gods. Once a week, once a day? Just so i CAN KEEP ON TOP OF IT[GRIN].

As for the men and their big ejaculates, charming. How manly, leaving a big deposit.

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ShirleyKnot · 10/11/2010 23:30

Faces in Places

Truly one of the funniest sites ever.

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