new bloke is rather "ahem" large!

[cherrymonster]

and sex can be painful at times. what are the best positions to accommodate as much of him as possible,without hurting myself and still helping us both to climax?

Girl - whos legs go over whos shoulders?

I hope I find out tomorrow.

......reminded me of friend who used to get dizzy whenever he had an erection due to blood flow... a bit early in the morning, for this, I know

my friend was a skinny guy so it all looked decidedly incongruous...like he was taking a pet animal around with him rather than an integral part of his body.

TDiddy, thats so funny!

This is true. Thing is, the guy didn't enjoy sex that much as it was like a separate entity...and then he scared women...and then he had to deal with faintness...poor guy

tdiddy- thankfully, new bloke is not skinny. he is a very large bloke overall so is perfectly in proportion. he is very tall too

So cherry , you/he has got it all then

an alternate to you going on top would be to alternate your location iykwim.

try chairs, bed, sofa.

i find sitting on top of something with legs around his waist is good for the larger manhood. the kitchen bunker/table, washing machine , etc.

agree with iNeed - car bonnet.

car bonnet is somewhat seasonal tho isnt it, unless they install one in the bedroom...

unless you have a garage which has a door to the utility room.

4-5" girth is not very big. When I measured my 3 year old's wrist for a bracelet it was 5".

Did you mean diameter? < curious >

God, I hope not, BalloonSlayer!

thought you mean fat, not king dong!

i'd have thought after childbirth a big willy would be a breeze.....

Porc, it can be worse after childbirth because the cervix tends to sit a little lower than it previously did and any scarring following childbirth (even from just grazes) can cause tightness.

My preferred position would be celibacy over a willy that causes pain! Some bodies just don't fit together right.

Or did you mean 4-5cm diameter?

Please God tell me there aren't men with 4-5inches diameter girth??!! How frightening!

4-5 inches girth is normal.
A tiny point- he doesn't have to use it all.

You have to come before he goes near you with it.

Can we clarify... does girth mean circumference or diameter?

I my experience, 4-5 inches circumference would be rather small, but 4-5 inches diameter would be impossible!

Girth in my mind is circumference.
4-5 inches is "normal."

That's what I meant. I have the skinniest wrists you've ever seen and I measured round them today and their girth is 7"

Thank God DH didn't ask me what I was doing.

"Oh a woman on the internet says her new bloke's cock is massive and measures 4" around and I don't think that's massive so I was measuring my wrist just to see whether I thought . . . why are you looking at me like that DH?"

well my wrists are just 5.5 inches so make of that what you will!

PMSL at us all measuring our wrists.