devastated :(

[crying2]

Sorry if anyone thinks I’m a horrible person here

ive got a 9 month old and I’ve just found out I’m pregnant again

I’m so upset I don’t want another baby get my partner is happy but I’m so heartbroken

i don’t want another baby yet 😭 I’m so gutted

@AsterixInEngland
My opinion. Feel free to address the OP not me.

So sorry you’re in this situation OP.

I was in a similar situation to you and like you I just couldn’t imagine having another baby then, no matter how many things I read about how having a small age gap is me. I just wasn’t physically or mentally ready. I took the tough decision to have a termination and although it does still make me sad occasionally, I don’t regret it. I was also worried about it affecting my chances of having a baby in the future but two years on and I’m pregnant again, this time in a much better place.

The difference is I had a really supportive partner. I’m not sure what to advise you on that other than like other PPs have said, it’s really important you make the right decision for you personally as it is your body.

Definitely worth seeking counselling if you think it might help.