Due July 2022 (thread 2)

[CaptainCarp]

Hi all original thread was almost full so here's a new one!
Original thread link:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/4371203-due-july-2022?pg=1

Thanks so much @camvt you've really helped me there. You're so right I should contact my gp and they might be able to offer me early scans for reassurance. I'm going to phone them tomorrow and get the ball rolling. I was definitely putting it off because I guess if I didn't acknowledge it in that way, I felt like it would be better emotionally. But now I feel a lot better thank you so much. Big kisses to you, wishing you a happy and as calm a pregnancy journey as you can have. XXX

@Cruz86 I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you 😔💕

@HoneyPea I hope everything’s okay and they’re just being cautious x

@Cruz86 I'm so sorry xx

@HoneyPea hope you get some good news x

@Cruz86 thinking of you ❤️ xxxx

@Cruz86 I'm so devastated for you, im so sorry 💔 you were my ovulation and due date twin. I can't imagine what you're going through right now.. I wish I could take your pain away. I'm so sorry 😢

Thank you for all the well wishes. I have just been discharged after 7 hours!!! But baby is in the correct place and we saw a heartbeat so all is good ❤️

Reading all of your messages has set me off again 😞 Thank you so much for caring. Lots of support around me thankfully and a beautiful little 4 year old for me to focus on. You never realise how hard it is until it happens to you 💔

I'm glad to hear you're okay and everything looks good @HoneyPea.

Good luck tomorrow @feliznavidad2. Will be thinking of you.

Lots of love xxx

@Cruz86 take care lovely, be gentle with yourself xxx

@HoneyPea glad to hear everything went well 💕

Great news @HoneyPea

My temperature has dropped massively today so now I’m in a complete panic that I’m about to miscarry 😖😣😢

@Misty84 how many weeks are you? How come you're measuring it?

This is slightly different but I had my HCG measured and then again 2 days later. They were supposed to double but they stayed the same! I was convinced something's wrong but it was ok in the end and no explanation (GP tried to guess maybe different machines cos I went to different clinics?! Doesn't make sense though) x

@Cruz86 sorry to hear your news. Thinking of you and family.

I've re found this thread after other one closed. I'm 8-2 my nausea is next level, really struggling. It's my second pregnancy and it's def worse this time. It's also hard with a toddler in tow, im back in bed whilst she naps!!

Im struggling to drink water and ending up drinking diluted juice and mainly eating toast. Rest assured its what i did last time and bubs turned out OK so don't worry if you're in similar position.

I have scan on sunday so just hoping body isn't tricking me, i keep feeling crampy so my anxiety is high.

@laurenGame I always temped throughout TTC to confirm ovulation, then I read somewhere that it’s supposed to stay elevated during pregnancy so I thought I’d keep taking it until my early scan for reassurance. Not very reassured today that’s for sure!!! I just called the midwife advice line and she told me that I should only worry if there’s pain or bleeding, and advised me to stop temping. So I will 🙃 Just overly paranoid I guess in the same way that some women repeatedly PAOS! Early pregnancy is a nightmare haha.
Thanks so much for replying and sharing your own experience too! Xx

I’m now just being positive aslong as I’m not in pain or bleeding I’m gona hope for the best sick of the Googling and worrying 😂 my nausea has calmed down loads only comes in waves or if I smell something I don’t like , but my boobs still sore and big my sense of smell is at all time high I literally don’t fancy any food at all so have lived of crumpets and also Ribena squash as anything else just makes me heave so wierd! I’m 9 weeks today and have a scan next Sunday ❤️ Still isolating with covid till next Tuesday 🙄 xxxx

Just had repeat viability scan, saw tiny little one with a heartbeat. Feeling v relieved.

@Misty84 I was also temping you track my ovulation and I continued after I got my BFP, I had a drop in temperature and like you I panicked, when I spoke to my midwife she told me to stop temping, she said it is 100% normal for your temp to change on different days and they wouldn't expect every day now for it to be as high, I also read a lot of threads that said the same.

I gave it to my OH to hide from me and not having it there has took away that temptation and I am feeling ALOT less anxious

So just to put your mind at rest it is totally normal for it to drop some days

@Misty84 it's hard to pull away isn't it. I was getting scans weekly because of bleeding , now I'm thinking I've to pull back a bit, I can't go 9 months like this.
My next scan is in 3 weeks and it seems like a huge gap and makes me panicky a bit. But I just keep telling myself it's for the best.

Would you ask OH to hide them?
How about still obsessing but over something positive? For example I love to read the decline of miscarriage with every week. That's always comforting and I could stare at 100 articles about it 😂

@Elsols93 Oh you’re quite a bit further ahead of me, hopefully I won’t still be this ridiculous at 9 weeks, I’ll take a leaf out of your book! 🙂

That’s brilliant @feliznavidad2

Thanks @purpleskyssssss, I needed to read this, the thermometer is definitely going away!! Might give to my OH too 😛

Great advice @laurenGame! And I’m so sorry to hear about your bleeding, that must be genuinely scary, not like my worry over a dropped temperature. You’ve been having weekly scans to monitor things, oh my goodness. And everything is ok? Do they know what’s causing the bleeding?

Yes it's ok, it's Hematoma which doesn't usually harm the baby. bleeding stopped now so back to ticking off days and weeks, until that 12 week scan

I had my early scan yesterday and saw baby’s heart beating away. I’m measuring a day early so apparently my EDD is now 1st July which makes me 9 weeks today! Everything was as it should be and a relief to see only one baby 😂 hope everyone is ok, I need to catch up on all the comments!!

@annie1994 due date twins! What did your scan look like? I have one next week at 10 weeks xxx

@Cruz86 I am very sorry. I know that there are no words that can help you right now. Take care of yourself 😘

@HoneyPea & @feliznavidad2 glad to see everything went well for you both. Its such a relief isn't it.

Iv just got back from my scan. We were expecting the worst after last time but this time we saw a heartbeat, both me and oh cried, although we're not out of the woods yet, we can relax a little. Xx