it's a doddle daisy co-sleep with the problem ones, and let the oldest lie in bed listening to the Goons on a walkman (although the laughing disturbs the other two!) That's my night tonight.
Can't decide whether DS2 should go back to school tomorrow. He looks awful, keeps getting shivery and dizzy and has a headache, but in between those he is fine and able to bicker and run around. I really think he needs a couple more days, but I don't want him to get used to being at home.