Dippy - it's not that I think it will be scary - it is just what you said - that she looks asleep........
A good friend lost a 7 week old dd when ds1 was about 15 months, and she had photos.....I can't explain it......if they looked like there was something wrong, you might be able to understand, do you know what I mean? It is so scary that they can look so perfect, but not be alive...
I'm not putting it very well, but I hope you get what I mean....