oh have fun gmm, yes the weather there is completely different! lol. How do you know someone is snooping? I always wonder how people know, do they make sly comments? I'd hate to know someone had been reading what I wrote without admitting it to me. I know this is public etc and loads of people we don't know read it but it just feels like an invasion of privacy if they know you and don't own up
SPB - T and N sound very similar in some ways. Very stubborn!!! Well I read this quote off Kellymom
"You are not a pacifier; you are a Mom. You are the sun, the moon, the earth, you are liquid love, you are warmth, you are security, you are comfort in the very deepest aspect of the meaning of comfort.... but you are not a pacifier!" -- Paula Yount
and it is really cheesy but was just when I was getting fed up of night feeds and feeling exactly like a dummy. Reading that made me feel like looking at it in a different light. In fact I have read a fair few things now about night weaning on kellymom and have decided we're going to hang on til at least a year, we're so close now it seems silly not to hang in there a bit longer.
Why would he not settle for you though? Was he overtired? It's so miserable when they are obviously tired but won't give in