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April 2007 - is that a star in the sky? OUCH, no it's a set of keys

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ElfPolarBear · 16/12/2007 22:17

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notgoodtiming · 17/12/2007 06:56

I am pregnant!!!!!!!!!!

well I have had a postive test at 3am, used the £1 shop ones (thanks Pesha!) am gobsmacked, not planned (at all).

only took a test as can't remember having a period in last month, or can remember when I did last have one also can't remember when we last 'made love'

heck............. should be about 6 weeks

not ready to reveal myself yet, I have lots of issues and I am really going to need you guys x

liath · 17/12/2007 07:25

OMG notgoodtiming - congratulations and of course we'll be here for you as much as you need.

What's been going on that's upset people - or should I not ask?

Am looking forward to seeing the Scottish ladies today then tonight we're driving to London to stay with the ILs so I won't be about for the next few days.

news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/scotland/7146917.stm - this is what I was up to yesterday - great fun. If you look carefully you can see me in the photo - I'm the one in a red suit wearing a fake beard.....

DippyChristmas · 17/12/2007 07:50

Congratulations NGT - here for you (who ever you are .....) xxxx

No getting "involved" in certain upsetting threads - staying well out - Happy on the fence!!

Just saying Good Morning really - Hello!

Sexmasonlegs · 17/12/2007 08:03

Oh my God NGT, congratulations whoever you are. Looking forward to the big reveal.

Dh is under the weather, and is making a drama out of it. I hate men when they are ill! Sorry- not feeling v compassionate.

NorthernLurkerwithastarontop · 17/12/2007 08:04

Congratulations NGT - wishing every good thing for you and all your family!

Liath - I was wondering that too! I'm sure someone will enlighten us?

I love the new thread title - my head is ok - but v tender if I touch it - so I don't!

notgoodtiming · 17/12/2007 08:06

this is going to sound awful, but I feel dreadful and am not sure where I am heading

geordiemacminxpie · 17/12/2007 08:08

Go on....tell us who you are!!!!

DippyChristmas · 17/12/2007 08:08

Email me if you need sweetheart - captain_dippy "at" yahoo "dot" co "dot uk. xxxxxxxxxxxx

geordiemacminxpie · 17/12/2007 08:18

Octo?

Dippy in disguise?

Tis NOT me!!!!

Anyone know why the "other" thread got deleted?

jingleoooggs · 17/12/2007 08:26

dts are still asleep

slept 6.45pm - 3am full feed each then straight back to sleep and still sleeping!!

making up for the pool party night - well they are going to have to get their lazy butts up soon cos ds1 has nursery and we have a Christmas Party to go to

jingleoooggs · 17/12/2007 08:27

what was the other thread about????? ok I have guessad at hd & nutty but have either of them left their partners???? are they having a real affair? or an internet one? come on tell me

DippyChristmas · 17/12/2007 08:38

I do't know, Oooggs - no getting involved either. xx Wow to twins still sleeping - good stuff!

GMM - I wouldn't ask myself to ask myself to email myself - LOL!! Nope, not me!

RudolphtherEDDASnosedreindeer · 17/12/2007 08:41

oooo a mystery pg, come on please tell us, we may be able to help

A brief summary of the missing thread(because if I didn't know i'd be getting really pissed off by now!) well HD started a thread in relationships called I ruied my life. Basically NB started a thread on here to out HD and told HD's SIL's what was going on. HD's thread got LOADS of posts and lots of people felt it was better off deleted for the sake of HD's wife and NB's husband. I don't know the full extent of what went on but some others do. Anyway it appears HD's wife wants out and he has(hopefully) gone off to try and sort thing in RL. As I hope NB has. As i've said to NB these things will rarely end in any other way (as in not a good way)and lets hope that for all concerned they have learned a lesson and end up where they want to be.

I think that's about it but if I have it wrong please feel free to correct me

NB if you are lurking I hope you are ok, actuallly hope you missed the thread. Really hope you and dh can work things through if that is what you both want.

I have to go to work today the shine has well and truely gone off my back to work happiness but I have been a lot nicer so I guess it's what I needed. It's really nice to be me and an adult for a change.

I guess everyone has christmas madness going on this week. Is everyone all wrapped and ready tyo be Father Christmas

I have a mammoth journey to Brighton and back on saturday, with a 3 year old. Could be, erm, interesting

RudolphtherEDDASnosedreindeer · 17/12/2007 08:45

oh no

Ds just pulled himself up to stnading for the first time >>>

Maveta · 17/12/2007 08:50

What? What's going on? I feel totally lost and confused, what have I missed? Can anyone fill me in? You've got my email if better to do it that way.. at work now so got to run - only today and wednesday and then off til 2nd jan! yay! Am hoping to have a skivey day at work so fingers crossed I'll be back in later.

Oooh ooh - it's my birthday on friday! Put the date in your diary girls x

DippyChristmas · 17/12/2007 08:52

Thanks for the summary Eddas - yes, NB, if you're lurking, hope you can work things thruogh with DH. Here for you. x

Maveta · 17/12/2007 08:57

x-post! um thanks Eddas, still not really sure what it's all about, all a bit cryptic, and not sure why so many people have been upset by it?? Anyway, sounds like it's one best to stay out of so hope everyone can put it behind them.

Congrats to notgoodtiming! Of course we will be here for you x

Idreamofchocolate · 17/12/2007 10:02

Morning - still feeling rather and about the NB/HD thing. I remember the evening he came onto our thread and started chatting with us. It was months ago, and I can't quite believe that things carried on from then, and got so out of control. This is supposed to be a place for support and fun, not for ruining people's lives. I'm sure it's not the first time something like this has happened, and it certainly won't be the last, as people love having their selfish egos stroked, without thinking of the effects on their loved ones.

Anyway, not going to mention it again.

NGT - you know that we will be here for you (whoever you are). Give yourself a chance to get your head 'round what has happened - getting preg is a shock even when it is planned.

fpesha · 17/12/2007 10:07

Yes NGT we will all be here for you whatever happens.
Feel free to email me also if you'd like to - dynamai @yahoo.co.uk

Maveta · 17/12/2007 10:13

If anyone can help me with advice here I really need it. I am finding this whole transition very difficult and confusing and I know a few of you have been through it so all advice would be so appreciated.

cazboldy · 17/12/2007 10:18

oh dear a bit of a mess then!

NGT hope you are ok and can work things out.I know how it feels to have a shock pg and be completely bowled over by it. (I was 14 when I got pg with ds1)
you can also email me if you like [email protected]

hope everyone else is well! must tidy up!

ds1 is home ill(ish) and is dd's bd tomorrow - must get some presents wrapped!

cazboldy · 17/12/2007 10:23

Maveta - try not to worry so much. You should be fine. I know with ds2 I fed him once a day for about 5 months! You won't have loads of milk - but Im sure your little one will let you know if he wants more! also it is a really good thing that you still want to carry on at all - loads of people don't manage it for this long!

iMustBeMad · 17/12/2007 10:30

Maveta - will email you
at work so can't chat on here!
NGT - WO?
I have a copy of the deleted thread, I was trying to catch up on it! Email me.

christmascrackerboldy · 17/12/2007 10:33

just trying out my christmas name!

Octo · 17/12/2007 10:39

ooooh a pg april lady Its not me btw! Though have been concerned my coil isn't working but apparently it is...

NotGoodTiming - we are totally here for you - and now I will have to return to find out everything!!! I hope you are okay

I hope Nutty is okay too I'm sure you are a lurker though!