Jen don't say things like that, you could be tempting fate. Besides labour isn't that bad, it is the most pain I have ever been in, but it really isn't as bad as what I imagined before I had DS1.
Peachy, it isn't bravery, it's no a no brainer, it is a choice between staying here in the wind and rain, and watch my kids grow up with the sort of people that live around here and turn to knives and guns and drugs, or take them somewhere where the sun shines, teenagers behave appropriatly (on the most part) and hopefully be healthier for it. How are you anyway, long time no speak, how old is Maya now? Are you tempted to have a second?