Thanks everyone for the advice and sympathy. Not getting much rest so far as DS only had a short nap earlier and screamed when I tried just now. Just having a short break and will try again.
I'm not doing any cooking or housework to be fair. Some lovely lovely friends brought us a couple of meals to reheat, and DH has done a bit of cooking, so we're managing. House is a mess but I don't have the energy to give a shit! I do have a few little errands to do before the holiday (preparing parcels and taking to PO, for example) laundry and of course the dreaded packing. But trying to do the minimum.
I did buy some weaning bits yesterday. Got a soft silicone bib with a bit at the bottom for catching food! It seems quite good and DS chewed it
Tried him with some Ella's sweet potato this morning but he pulled a face and turned his head away when I tried giving a bit more. To be fair I tried it and it wasn't very tasty!