Arrrrhhh! Havent been able to come on for 3 days as we had a bloody power cut and for some reason its done some damage to one of our sockets in the power lead! You wouldnt believe how much I cheered up when I got back on today yipee! Dh thinks I'm a right loon 
Thanks so much for all your kind thoughts about DH's grandad. He's ok, but keeps havinf his moments where he cant stop crying bless him, they were so close. Dont even think we'll be able to bury him this side of xmas, apparently deaths are always up in the month of December, how depressing is that? (suicides are big news at this time of year to!
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Booby sorry i didnt see your message for me to ring you till just now do you still need me to chick? Sounds like you dont need enemys with sil's like those? I agree with Pink, take her on a day out to a spa or get day tickets to a gym with all the works. WE're treatng my auntie to a day out at our gym, with jacuzzis and saunas and a massage to finish the day off. I think us ladies really appreciate stuff like that. And Stumpy, cant believe your sil missed out giving your older one a presie, thats so wrong! 
Seems like while some of the lo's are having trouble sleeping my little Jackson is doing the opposite and sleeping throught ill 6-7am but he did have a spell few weeks ago where I was up around 8-10 times a night complete and utter JOKE! He's really settled in his cotbed ion his own room but yesterday I found him lying on his tummy and at the opposite side of the cot upside down, he's a right little mover now!
Jackson now weighs 14lb11oz at 16 weeks. So good to see his little chicken legs are finally filling out and I cant stop munching'em.
Welcome to the madhouse Ash, you'll feel welcome here, we all just blart everything out and get loads of great support from one another. I had my ds a day before you, mind you he was 2 WEEKS LATE! Whats your ds' name and are you a 1st timer like me? 
Hope everyone else is good and looking forward to xmas. Am off to the flicks tonight to see romantic comedy 'The Holiday' then me and DH are going to the German Market in Birmingham Sunday afternoon to sample the delish food and wheat beer, then do a spot of last min crimbo shopping.